I think it's really important, though, to differentiate that from, yeah, I have a little energy

to connect, but I just want to do what's easy.

What's up, guys?

Welcome back to Five Into Fatherhood.

So in our online homeroom community, this is where we throw out a challenge every single

month to the 3,000 or so people in homeroom to help build their family teams.

Rebecca, we have lots of questions people ask.

It's basically a giant think tank for family teams.

And so it's so awesome to hear these questions.

But just today, we got this question from Rebecca.

She says, my husband is not a

reader at all. He likes to watch TV after the kids go to bed. Don't get me wrong. Sean and Gus are

hilarious, but not every night. I find sitcoms boring in a waste of my reading time. When I don't watch

TV with him, I feel disconnected from him. We've tried schedules, watching TV three nights a week

and reading the other nights. We've tried me reading a book aloud. So it gives us something to

discuss and talk about. Didn't work. I'm just kind of at a loss as to what to do now. And so I can't

I'm imagining some large percentage of guys listening to this, and I'm definitely in

the camp, you're, you're home, you're tired, you know, it's eight or nine o'clock at night,

and there is so much good stuff to watch on Netflix or wherever, and you find yourself

just night after night after night zoning out. And in this case,

you know, this, this, um, this dad has an amazing wife who wants to like connect with him.

Yeah. And doesn't feel like binge watching is, is the way to do it. So, uh, yeah,

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