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Ep 325: Coercive Control: A Child’s Unthinkable Journey with David Challen, Part 2

Crime Analyst

Laura Richards

True Crime

4.93.2K Ratings

🗓️ 6 April 2026

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

In part 2 David speaks candidly about his experience, excavating the patterns he now recognises, the behaviours that were normalised at the time, and the lasting effect of living with a coercively controlling father. Together, Laura and David examine the subtle and often missed warning signs, the insidious nature of coercive control, why recognising these patterns in law is critical to prevention, protection and saving lives and how men can be part of the solution in changing this behaviour. David also recently joined Laura for a Crime Analyst Squad exclusive live event. David dives deeper into his experiences, sharing a photo which depicts what life was like living with his father, and more information about his mother’s murder trial. JOIN the Crime Analyst Squad now and listen using a new special promo to mark the two-year anniversary of the Squad: 50% off annual membership for new members and Ringleaders. Use code 6D923 #SallyChallen #CoerciveControl #DavidChallen #PowerAndControl #DomesticAbuse #CrimeAnalyst #TrueCrime #Podcast #WarningSigns #Manipulation #UnthinkableBook #DomesticViolence Clip  https://fb.watch/G3VrhhcNHB/ Sources    Buy David’s Book The Unthinkable: https://www.amazon.com/Unthinkable-Story-Control-Violence-Mother/dp/1914240278  www.dashriskchecklist.com    https://www.thelaurarichards.com/resources/coercivecontrol    https://www.thelaurarichards.com/resources/books    https://www.thelaurarichards.com/my-two-cents/serial-and-high-risk-stalkers-and-domestic-abusers       For more insight and knowledge, advocacy and professional development join The Crime Analyst Squad. It’s a growing and dynamic community offering expert insight, in-depth conversations, exclusive episodes and videos, and live events.  More Training Info: www.dashriskchecklist.com    www.thelaurarichards.com    Crime Analyst YouTube, Socials and Website    YouTube @crimeanalyst     Facebook Crime Analyst Podcast    Instagram @crimeanalyst @laurarichards999    Threads @crimeanalyst    X @thecrimeanalyst @laurarichards999     TikTok @crimeanalystpod    Website www.crime-analyst.com     Leave a 5* Review https://www.crime-analyst.com/reviews/new/    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Now as a child, I was born with a pit in my stomach that I know now that my father was bad.

0:34.6

And I knew it at the time, but I didn't have a reason why. I normalized

0:38.6

every other violence that happened, the life of servitude that she had, that fear and control.

0:43.6

And I was waiting for a moment, like an acorn that was blooming into more signs that I was being

0:49.3

aware what was going on my home, the veil that fell. And what adult child survivors need to know is they

0:54.9

have an ability of their own survivorship to claim it. And there's no weakness in that. There's

1:00.7

strengthening identity in community. And if we can share our stories, the more of these unthinkable

1:06.2

acts like in my book and what's happened to my family don't happen to any other family.

1:11.5

And there's a line in the book where you talk about, you know, well, I keep thinking I was there, I saw it, and did I do enough, almost saying?

1:19.7

I mean, did you feel guilt? I felt immense guilt. You know, we all knew there were alarm bells growing up, but we were just robbed the language.

1:28.4

Coercive control is a language that is afforded to us now, but it's not being shared and proliferated.

1:33.2

There's hardly any awareness campaigns on this.

1:36.3

And we don't even want to teach it to young children who are affected by this too.

1:40.7

So we have to look at it holistically from the communities, education, families,

1:45.6

you know, emergency services, are they doing enough? It's a collective effort. If you say

1:50.1

domestic abuse and violence against women, it isn't your issue, you're the problem. I'm sorry,

1:54.4

that's the truth. It's very clear the love you have for your mum, but this is a complicated,

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