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Happy Homebirth

Ep 313: Presence Over Perfection: Madeline Murray on Birth and Growth

Happy Homebirth

Katelyn Fusco

Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Parenting, Kids & Family:parenting, Kids & Family

4.9 • 577 Ratings

🗓️ 9 February 2026

⏱️ 68 minutes

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Summary

Have you ever noticed how each birth teaches us something different—no matter how many times we’ve done this before?   Today, I’m welcoming back a dear friend of the show, Madeline Murray—midwife, mother of four, and someone whose story has unfolded alongside this podcast over the years. Madeline has been here before to share her first and second homebirths, and today she’s bringing us into her third and fourth. Two births that took place in very different seasons of life, and yet both marked by growth, presence, and a deepening sense of trust.   Episode Roundup: First, I’m struck by how much presence mattered in these later births. Madeline talks about the difference between surviving a birth and actually participating in it—and that distinction feels so important. Sometimes peace doesn’t come from changing the circumstances, but from being able to stay with yourself through them. Second, I love her honesty about how seasons of life affect birth. Giving birth while navigating business ownership, older children, and a body that’s changed with time looks different than it did before—and that doesn’t make it lesser. In many ways, it makes it richer. There’s wisdom there. There’s perspective. And finally, Madeline’s story reminds us that even when we’re experienced—even when we’ve attended births or lived inside this world for years—birth still has something to teach us. It continues to shape us, humble us, and invite us into deeper trust. So wherever you are on your own journey—first baby or fourth—may this story remind you that growth doesn’t always look dramatic. Sometimes it looks like calm. Sometimes it looks like confidence. Sometimes it looks like finally feeling at home in your body.   Links:   Redeem ™ |  https://hubs.ly/Q03K0Dr90 “Click here to learn more about REDEEM HealthShare Ministry”   Restorative Roots  | restorativeroots.com (use code HAPPYHOMEBIRTH for $20 off your first order)   Whole Mother Homebirth | https://www.myhappyhomebirth.com/presale (use code PODCAST for 10% off)

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Happy Home Birth Podcast, your source for positive natural childbirth stories

0:07.9

and your community of support, education, and encouragement in all things homebirth and

0:13.1

motherhood.

0:18.3

Have you ever noticed how each birth teaches us something different, no matter how many times

0:24.7

we've done this before?

0:26.5

Hey there, happy homebirthers, and welcome to episode 313 of the Happy Home Birth Podcast.

0:32.1

I'm your host, Caitlin Fusco, and today I'm welcoming back a dear friend of the show, Madeline Murray, midwife, mother of four,

0:40.9

and someone whose story has unfolded alongside this podcast over the years.

0:46.4

Madeline has been here before to share her first and second home births and today she's

0:51.1

bringing us into her third and fourth experiences.

0:55.1

Two births that took place in very different seasons of life,

0:59.8

and yet both marked by growth, presence, and a deepening sense of trust.

1:05.5

This conversation is about what changes as we grow,

1:09.1

how birth meets us differently over time, and how surrender

1:13.0

often looks quieter, steadier, and more confident than we expected. Let's jump in. Please remember

1:20.9

that the opinions of my guests may not necessarily reflect my own and vice versa. And the show is not

1:26.5

medical advice. It's an educational tool.

1:28.9

So continue to take empowered responsibility for your help and your family.

1:33.3

Madeline, my friend, it is so good to have you back on the Happy Home Birth podcast. Thank you for being

1:38.2

here. I'm so happy to be here. Oh, I'm happy to have you. And I think, I think you really are the most interviewed person on my podcast.

1:47.9

I know. What is, is this number, is this four? Four? This is number four for us. Wow.

1:54.1

Yeah. Maybe even five. Gosh, I'll have to go back and link the episode so that everybody can hear. We talked about

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