EP 31: What She Wore vs. What He Did: The Real Issue

So What Now? with Carla and Dex

Idea to Launch Productions

Society & Culture, Personal Journals

4.8 • 592 Ratings

🗓️ 26 May 2025

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Summary

Friend, this week was juicy and necessary. First off, I gave y'all some homework—yes, homework. Go listen to Atomic Habits and please, if you're struggling with your mental health, talk to a therapist. We love healing over here.

Dex gave us all the feels with her recap of her Cowboy Carter trip with her daughter—bonding, Beyoncé, boots and Black girl joy. In our Womanhood segment, we had to touch on B. Simone getting dragged again. This time it's 'cause she wore coochie cutters in church. The internet lost its mind. But let's be real—why is she catching heat when she's bringing people to Christ in her own way? Stop being hypocrites.

Then we had to unpack all this DV mess in the news—Diddy, DDG, Tory Lanez... it's nonstop. The way some men are reacting, like there's a war on them, is wild. There's a real lack of understanding around what abuse even is. Dex and I both asked the real question: why are so many men still blaming women instead of addressing their own violence?

In our Motherhood segment, whew chile—Teyana Taylor and Iman Shumpert's divorce drama got messy. Iman reported her for violating their agreement, and now she might face jail time... even though she let him slide when he did the same thing. Petty much?

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0:00.0	I don't know what's going to happen next, but yeah, so what now.
0:11.1	Honey, honey, welcome back to another episode of So What Now.
0:18.8	We at Hello, laughs and something else.
0:23.6	Next line, Carla, come in and save me with the bird.
0:28.7	Every time you touch me, I just melt away.
0:32.5	Let's you start this show because I don't know what to say anymore. You got the tune,. You got the tune. You got to tune. You got to keep my day job. Welcome back, friends. I am clearly on a cowboy Carter high. You are. You are. You are like all the vibes, feeling all the love. You look very Sasha Fier. Oh, yes. I'm wearing my, well, I'm wearing Michaela's merch from the show.
0:55.1	And I'm wearing the boots that I wore.
0:56.6	I'm in my cowgirl vibes. Where are those from? Dillard. But they sell them at a bunch of different locations. It's a brand called Azealia Wang, I think, if I'm saying it right? I'm going to say, Azealia Banks. I said, what? $200 they're being returned.
1:08.9	My business, not yours.
1:10.7	It's my business.
1:11.8	It's my pockets.
1:12.9	It's your pockets.
1:13.8	And they didn't mind theirs. I said, what? $200. They're being returned. My business, not yours. It's my business.
1:11.8	It's my pockets.
1:12.9	It's your pocket.
1:13.8	And they didn't mind theirs. Where else in my room? Nowhere else. Right. But they look really good. Unless I start going to Cowboys. The bar? The Western Bar here? I think that's young people, but I think there might be like a little saddle up bar that we can go to.
1:24.9	Yeah.
1:25.4	I want a ride a little.
1:27.4	There's a place here.
1:28.1	We can go.
1:28.6	Let's go.
1:29.2	Let's go.
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