Scrubbing in with Becca Tilly, an I Heart radio podcast.

Hello everybody, it's Becca and we are scrubbing in and this is episode three. How's everyone doing?

We are back from a fun-filled weekend at the I Heart Radio Music Festival in Vegas.

Um, Vegas really takes a toll on my body.

Yeah, every time I go, I think like I'm gonna do better this year. I'm gonna be more responsible. I'm not 21 anymore.

But it never happens because there's endless amounts of fun to be had. However, I'm gonna start at the beginning of my weekend going to Vegas and actually I and I were flying together.

And on Southwest, you are in, you know, categories where you don't have an assigned seat. So you go on, you just hope to God that you get a window an aisle or an exit row.

And I paid $30 to be upgraded to the, you know, a section like I like to feel important.

And so I find a spot and actually is like, well, I'm in the seas and so she had got me coffee. So I'm like, well, I'll save you a seat.

So I put my backpack down in the seat next to me. I got an exit room and I'm just like everyone that passes. I'm just have my head down like did not make any eye contact.

And one lady finally stopped towards me and she was like, is that your, is that your bag or someone sitting there and I fumbled and was like, oh, it's my friend. She went to the bathroom. She like said her bag here first.

So instead of just being like, no, someone's sitting here. I had to make this detailed lie, which is how you always know if someone's lying. If there's too much detail, everyone remember this. I heard a psych, I think a psychologist or someone on TV said this one time.

If there's too much detail and someone's explanation, they're probably lying. That lady didn't seem to know she really bought it and actually ended up sitting by me. So it was a success story, but a very nervous one.

So we made it to Vegas and night one was great. I took a photo and my hand was on Dean's knee in the photo and I got really destroyed for that.

Goes back to a topic that we had before of taking photos. Apparently you're also not allowed to touch them on the knee.

Like if it was the upper side, get it. Okay. But then there's a photo of me, Amy and our friend, Christa in my hand, where each hand was on their knee. So I'm like, well, I guess I'm dating them too.

But touch you on the knee or dating. But then I made a joke about it and I got some kind of nasty messages about it because I made a joke. I posted the photo of me and Amy and Christa on my Instagram story and I was like, oh, I'm dating Amy and Christa too.

I got those hands and I circled my hands on their knee and I got some negative responses for those. So I would like to actually get into this topic, which is why people are so mean on social media.

It's something that I feel like a lot of people talk about. I've had this conversation several times, but I feel like everyone, whether they're in the public eye or just someone dealing with people in general, people receive rude comments on social media.

And this is a thing. Every single person I know, we might see something and we talk about it to our friends or we discuss it. But I have never once in my entire life gone on someone's page, hit the comment button.

And I've never chosen to write something so negative that could hurt someone's feelings because I think having been on the other end of it, I realize how effective that is and how one rude comment, even in the midst of 100 really nice comments, it can get it can affect my day.

So I think my mentality, I wish I would like to talk to someone who actually a bully who comments on people's pages.

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