Ep. 298 - In Bed with Expert Shan Boodram Live - Talking Sex, Relationships + Communication

Almost 30

Krista Williams & Lindsey Simcik

Alternative Health, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Education

4.5 • 4K Ratings

🗓️ 13 February 2020

⏱️ 74 minutes

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CATCH UP WITH K + L With Valentine’s Day right around the corner, K + L chat about relationships + being single! Lindsey shares what she enjoyed doing before her new relationship, and her appreciation for having a plan on her own terms. They talk about how the physical aspects of relationships change over time, and the differences in what you openly talk about (*cough* BLOW JOBS *cough*) when in a relationship vs. single. K + L also share their plans for Valentine’s Day! THE INTERVIEW Today we are live in LA with sexologist, dating expert, and author of The Game of Desire, SHAN BOODY! We are talking sex, relationships, communication, and intimacy. To kick it off, K + L reveal some crazy stories from their past—K before she met Justin, and L during her seven years of singlehood! Once we dive in with Shan, she shares how she got into this field and her passion for making sex education ‘sexy’ versus boring and dry. Shan talks greatly about cultivating the skill of communication, and ways to make sex conversations fun and pleasurable. We explore how our parents, and the way we experienced love growing up, influence our relationships today. Shan unpacks her concept of ‘dating with dominance’ and women being in the driver’s seat of their love lives. We also dive into polyamory, open relationships, and their effect on monogamy - while wrapping it up with some Almost 30 Nation dating stories! We also talk about: Shan’s yuck vs. yum conversation tactic Balancing working on your relationship vs. allowing it to be Meeting your partner where they are vs. saving them Advocating for your needs in the bedroom The beauty in dating Find more to love at almost30podcast.com! Love: Check out Matthew McConaughey’s new Instagram account @officiallymcconaughey! A big THANK YOU to everyone who attended our LA live show with Shan BOODY! We love you all! Resources: Learn more: shanboodram.com Instagram: @shanboody Book: The Game of Desire Purchase The Balanced Blonde Plant-Based Recipe Book and 22-Day Detox Your Life Program here! 22-Day Detox Your Life is a healing program. The program is 190 pages and has over 55 delicious plant-based recipes, plus all of the information you need to transition to a salt-oil-sugar-free plant-based diet. It also goes deep into food combining, detox protocols for healing, her own Lyme healing journey, tons of tips and tricks for eating a balanced plant-based diet, and so much more. If you purchase between 2/1 - 2/14, you will also receive: 3 live calls with Jordan Weekly meal plan emails Jordan’s Facebook group Use code ALMOST30 to get 10% off the healing program between 2/1 - 2/14. Upcoming Events: February 29th: Malibu, CA with Jenna Zoe May 5th - 8th: Almost 30 Retreat at Calamigos Ranch Malibu This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacy Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacy Podsights - https://podsights.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	I think one of the greatest fallacies that we share
0:02.6	is that communication is key.
0:04.7	Communication is that key.
0:06.2	And then you're like, well, there's a lot
0:08.4	of bad communication out there.
0:09.8	I think that saying communication is key
0:11.6	is identical to saying like, oh, the key to good art
0:14.5	is paint.
0:15.5	It's like, no, paint is the medium.
0:17.5	It's how you use it.
0:18.6	It's the skill that it's actually utilized
0:21.4	that makes something good or bad.
0:22.6	And so not all communication is good communication.
0:24.9	It is a skill that you have to learn,
0:26.6	something that you have to work at.
0:28.2	I mean, you don't just wake up having the language
0:30.5	to express yourself perfectly.
0:32.4	So if you're not great right now, that's OK.
0:35.1	You can practice.
0:35.8	You can get better at it.
0:36.7	There's definitely a learning curve.
0:38.0	And I am a product of that 1,000%.
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