Who is that one ex of yours? That one ex that like you you debate like could it have worked out what if we're still together now you have somebody like that I think the second I say who's that one ex like you that person pop in your head that's the one that we're talking about today on the show what are you supposed to do with that what is that unhealthy luckily our therapist friend Leah joins the show to talk about this whole thing with our mental health Monday today hi my name is creamer and I am proud to admit that I am a mama's boy.

You're not just any mama's boy you're a certified mama's boy and this is the certified mama's boy podcast hello friends how are you welcome to show us this is Monday if you're listening in real time we'll be able to go weekend I kiss your brand new door podcast this is very simple we got three principles on here we live we laugh we love my mom we live our lives out loud we laugh a lot and we love my mom my co-host Nancy Gancy hi mom hi honey I really don't know how you parents do it

I don't know I don't understand it I have I've always had a lot of respect in parents because I feel like it's a hard job until this weekend just how hard that job actually is oh John Friday showed that had a friend coming her her daughter's like all fascinated with DC and so they're coming out here to spend a couple of days and went down there and it was let me say it's it is a eight literally a number of

non-stop job I am exhausted right now because it is just like there's always something going on yesterday or Saturday when we went down to DC and we got back I was just tired right I mean I I wake up so early still on Saturday side of what can I play for in the morning we got back here maybe around two or three and I was just excuse me I was just so tired

and I was I just want to go I have to go lay down and it's like I woke up and I was like all of a sudden I started hearing like some kids show playing like I'm living room

and I was like I forgot like this just never ends like once you wake up from your nap it's not over with you know like oh it's it's go time like it's go time they're still here they've been waiting care of them there's no break

haha no but the weekend was it was fun it was I'm just tired I'm just so I don't know how y'all do that constantly I don't like it's um and she's great like I'm known for a while now but it's just like wow I I just I've never had I never spent this much time with a child before ever you know like ever ever

I honestly and this is like this weekend was like I don't know that I could do this I honestly don't know that I could like do this and I feel like parents here's a thing I feel like parents you guys set us up for disaster

because all you do is talk about all the good things that happen right it's like you build up this this and I think you do it with each other you're just like this this like like delusions of grandeur kind of thing

like kids are hard and it's not my kid I'm like wow this is like for example so we're down we're down in DC right and like she's she's seven and you know she's getting hungry and it's kind of hot outside she's bored because who the hell would want to go to Washington DC you know like after a while you see the things but we're on this like tour thing for a couple hours and like I get it I would have been bored as hell too it's it's me like when I went to California right

for the first time like it was just like I couldn't appreciate as much as I thought I would yes and like starts to get whining she's hungry I'm like I don't I don't like what do you do what what what are you supposed to do here I don't I don't I don't I don't even know like what to

and then that last is like hours yeah but we couldn't feed it like we didn't have food you know we didn't have food and like I don't know it was just so I opening to me that I don't know I don't know if I can do kids I don't know that I can do it

because people like you though that have always wanted them you know like you just you're like built to be a mom you know I just I'm really questioning at age almost 38 like

if I just not cut out to be and like I'm great with kids and I think I showed her like a really great weekend and like I always had I fun stuff planned and

figured it out we went over to the science museum here and that was fun and I went obviously went down to DC and what else did we the other some little

little boats over here in the harbor that you can take out like little kid boats that they can drive we did that and fun I know they love the she love they went over to the museum I had to work someone

Thursday and so they were they went over to the museum for a while I mean the sorry the

I'm wearing for a while uh so it was no lack of me like wanting to do this stuff but it's just like wow it's just like

how would do you ever like live your life well when you live with them it's different because it's not having to

entertain them all the time they have their own little things but they always need something that's just what I really

always just need something it's just never a break of like

it's a break it's just it's just like non-stop just kid kid kid it's so quiet in my house right now it almost feels

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