What's up, guys? Welcome to another five-minute fatherhood. So Jeff and I are back. We've been

recording these before a lot of the shutdown happened. And now a lot of you guys are in the middle

of a lot of new stuff. Like, how do you handle having so much of the family at home? What are we

going to do economically? So Jeff, I want to talk through some ideas for you guys in the next few

episodes. This one is, does a crisis bring your family together or drive it apart? So there's a lot

of things to worry about, obviously, in this season, you

guys. But one of the things that you want to make sure that you're doing is investing in your

team in such a way that as people get worried, as different things, the crisis mounts,

there are certain ways to design a group of people that crises will drive them

together. And there are certain ways to design a group of people that the crisis will drive them apart.

So an example of you guys is that in a team environment where we all know the goal, we're all going

for it. Then when we face another team or a major obstacle, it tends to drive

us together. However, if you're a part of a group and everyone is sort of bought in it as an individual,

only for what they're only in the group for what they can get out of it, crisises tend to drive

them apart. And unfortunately, you guys, many people today, their families are really designed to really

be driven apart by a crisis. And so I want to give you guys three really quick things you can start

to do right away that will help you begin that process of sort of bringing your family together

like a team. So they are processed together, pray together, and plan together. So what you want to do is have a regular time with your family where you're processing what's going on. How are you guys feeling? Understand that emotions are going to fluctuate all over the map. There's, you know, points in which kids are like, kind of like, oh, this is weird and different. And other points where

they may hear news that kind of freak them out, but they haven't told you about it. Process that stuff

together. Have a rhythm, I mean, maybe in the evening where you guys can just hang out, talk,

again, bring your family together, pray together, like really think and see what those needs are

and begin to pray as a team for

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