So, Oscar, you brought up this topic, so give us your thoughts.

Yeah, well I do, I like to read broadly, Christian and non.

About once a year I'll read a book that would be categorized as self-help perhaps you

know one of the more recent ones that I read that I thought was actually really practical

was atomic habits multi like million book selling you know New York Times best-selling guy as I was

thinking through it though I thought to myself man there's there's all these guys

there's the Jordan Peterson's there's the there's the James Clears that are that are putting together these things that are

Helptical practical tools, but what's missing and I like that you guys talked about there's aspects that we can redeem. What is the good? Some of these

books are excellent books on helping us understand how we function, right? The habits of our lives,

the way emotions affect relationships, how to understand the people around you.

Some of these books are really practical.

How to create healthy habits, how to grow up and just be an adult,

because a lot of us have these, like,

in this day and age, there's like the false start pandemic, right?

And then a lot of these books are just really well written.

They're enjoyable stories. But what they're missing

is at the end of the day, there's ultimately just more rules, just more morals that were going to ultimately fail at doing and that's the clear

and distinct difference between the gospel and what could be

helpful self-help books is that self-help books you are the hero of your own story

that's what but if you do this, you will have the life you want.

You're at the center of it.

But the gospel tells us, I am the problem and I am not the hero of mine's story.

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