What you just said is make sure your kids do it the right way, not do the ritual.

What's up, guys?

Welcome to another five-minute fatherhood.

So one of the things that is being said about culture today is we live in a cancel culture,

which is to say that we really don't understand or we cannot figure out as a culture

when somebody

does something that's clearly wrong, how are they ever redeemed? How are they ever restored or

ever brought back in? Do we even understand what forgiveness is? And one of the things of the

ideas that I've heard sort of thrown around that I thought was really interesting is that

part of the problem is that

is that we now are not being raised in sibling groups the way in the past many people were raised

and when you are living your life with a bunch of siblings you have to constantly learn how to

forgive and even those who are being raised in sibling groups,

oftentimes what you'll see in our culture is we will individualize the kids, put them in

their own rooms, give them their own stuff, keep them sort of separated from each other,

making sure that they don't ever have to really figure out how to learn to love each other

and forgive each other. And so part of what we want to encourage you guys to do is if you have multiple kids,

or you're thinking about raising a larger family,

one of the challenges you're going to have to face that's really going to bless your kids and the world

is you're going to have to help your kids figure out how to forgive each other

when they hurt each other over and over and over again.

And this is a very old problem, you guys.

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