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Life Happens with Barb & Michelle

Ep. 22 - Our Favorite Self-Care Practice

Life Happens with Barb & Michelle

Michelle Maros & Barb Schmidt

Education, Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.91.1K Ratings

🗓️ 19 July 2022

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Summary

In this week’s episode, Barb and Michelle talk about their favorite self-care practice, setting boundaries. In this conversation, they break down what a boundary is, why it’s so helpful for us to set them, and why this practice is truly the ultimate form of self-care.  Follow us @MichelleMaros and @Peaceful_Barb and share your experiences with us @BarbKnowsBestPod or at www.michellemaros.com/podcast.

Episode Notes:

Boundaries allow us to have more compassion. 

Boundaries are not about the other person. They are about self-care and empowering yourself.

How do we set boundaries for ourselves?

  • Notice within your life the trigger points that brings complaining. 
  • Remove yourself from situations that don’t align with your beliefs. 
  • Don’t share private information with people who haven’t earned your trust. 
  • Choose to mute or unfollow people that don’t make you feel good about yourself. 

When communicating your boundaries:

  • State your needs. Use “I” statements, such as “I need”. Avoid “you” statements and words like never, always, all the time. 
  • Be open to listening and engaging with the person you are communicating with. 

Top four tips for setting healthy boundaries:

  • Be clear about what the boundary is. 
  • Keep it simple enough for someone to remember it. 
  • Do not apologize when setting the boundary. It sends mixed messages. 
  • Be consistent when reinforcing your boundaries. 
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    Parker, engineering your success. Hello. Hello everyone whoa whoa whoa sorry

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    that's not indicative of how this week is going. It's true.

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    Welcome back to Barb Knows Best, the podcast.

    0:55.0

    We are here and alive, I think.

    0:58.0

    Well, we are recording a little bit earlier than usual and I know the morning is not your magical hour.

    1:02.8

    So it's interesting because.

    1:05.8

    Your throat's not even on.

    1:07.2

    I'm not awake.

    1:09.5

    Thank you.

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    It's interesting because we were just talking about the fact that we are recording at an earlier time today, which is fantastic for you, but not so amazing for me. And I feel like that kind of is a great lead into what we're going to be talking

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    about this week.

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    But yeah, we're here. Hi, this is Barb Knows Best the podcast. I am your

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    co-host Michelle Marros and I'm here with the ever amazing my mom peaceful Barb.

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    Hi everyone.

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