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So What Now? with Carla and Dex

EP 205: Necole Kane Pivoting LIFE After a Failed Blind Date - From Gossip Queen to Happy Flo

So What Now? with Carla and Dex

Idea to Launch Productions

Society & Culture, Personal Journals

4.8 • 592 Ratings

🗓️ 18 December 2023

⏱️ 93 minutes

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Summary

In this pivotal episode, Necole Kane discusses her start as a gossip blogger (Necole Bitchie) to realize her purpose as a different type of social media platform. Her journey started with a blind date and led her to sell all of her things off and move to Arizona. During her time there, she created her successful businesses (xoNecole and My Happy Flow) and moved on to creating other platforms that fulfill her with happiness. Listen in as Necole and Carla break down how you can be successful in the world of media while still maintaining your peace.

 

How Necole Kane went from the Gossip Columns to selling her company to Will Packer

(06:08) - Who is Necole Kane (the Rebrand)

(32:54) - Trusting in Blind Faith

(38:16) - Relationships and Dating (Fear of Abandonment)

(54:57) - Taking Control of Your Period

(68:08) - Finding Yourself through Soul Coaching

(83:36) - Bible Verse - Psalms 91

 

Guest IG: @‌hellonecole + myhappyflo

https://www.instagram.com/hellonecole

https://www.instagram.com/myhappyflo/

https://myhappyflo.co/

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This week on Pivot with Purpose.

0:07.9

When you're in a music industry, you're around a lot of toxic masculinity.

0:12.0

So I had a very negative view of men.

0:14.8

I thought they were all disgusting.

0:16.3

They used their power for wrong.

0:18.4

Like I got hooked up on a blind date.

0:20.7

And I sit down with this guy and he's so

0:23.1

self-aware. He's spiritually, mentally evolved. I could tell he was living in his purpose. He mentored

0:29.7

young men. And the way he talked, I had never met a man like that before in my life. And I remember

0:35.9

thinking, it's because of what you do. And I remember thinking

0:39.3

there's no way this type of man is going to date a woman like me. So I wanted to change my life

0:44.4

that day. So girl, I went home and a month later, I moved to Arizona and started plotting,

0:50.7

plotting my shift. Hey friend, you're listening to Pivot with Purpose.

0:56.3

This is my show where I pivoted from shit I'm 30 where I was dreading turning 30.

1:00.9

I had a failed marriage, failed engagement after that, and I don't have a relationship with my immediate family.

1:06.7

But through it all, I came out the other side with a thriving business, an unexpected radio

1:11.6

morning show of my own, and a platform where I can reach millions of people and help them walk

1:17.0

in their truth.

1:18.1

I am now celebrating every step of my journey into continuously finding my purpose, the good,

1:23.8

the bad, and the ugly. Sometimes this journey looks like shit, and it probably sounds even worse, but it's still

1:30.5

our journey, and I'm learning right along with you to enjoy it.

1:34.0

There's always a rainbow after the rainfalls.

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