This is episode 185, growing in rather than running from a relationship with Scott.

Welcome to Over It and On With It.

I'm your host, Christine Hasler, and for over a decade I've been a life coach, speaker, and author.

Each week you'll hear me work directly with a caller as I coach them through a goal they want to accomplish or an obstacle they may be facing.

I'll provide a blend of practical and spiritual advice as well as tangible actions

you can apply to your own life.

Now let's get on with the episode. Hi everybody, welcome back to the show.

Really excited about today's episode.

We cover a lot of ground and it's so nice to have another gentleman caller on the show

I love all the women who I get to coach on the show and it's really wonderful to have a balance of some

masculine energy as well so if you are a man and you'd like to be

coached on the show please email assist at christine-Hassler.com and say hey I'm a dude I want to get on the

show bump me on the list. I love having the diversity of perspective. And speaking of

men you may know that I've opened my Hawaii retreat up to men, women and couples. Usually my retreats are just for women only. However, I have felt the need and

y'all have asked me for a long time to really open it up. So, gentlemen, come, enroll. We only have about eight spots left. It's a nice mix of singles and

couples. A lot of the single ladies who've registered have a bit of concern about, hey, what

is it going to be like? there's going to be couples there

and I don't know if I like that and my response was this when I was single for a

long time I didn't like being around couples because it was just too painful and I felt

different I felt like a third wheel but then I had the awareness of wait a

second being around healthy couples that are doing the work together is like a living vision for me.

Of course I want to be around healthy couples. I want that energy in my field. I want to

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