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Hot Marriage. Cool Parents.

Ep 18: Jade & Tanner from Bachelor in Paradise Share about Their Miscarriage & Give Advice to Others Suffering ๐Ÿ’œ

Hot Marriage. Cool Parents.

Jamie Otis and Doug Hehner

Society & Culture, Tv & Film, Personal Journals, Kids & Family

4.5 โ€ข 1.8K Ratings

๐Ÿ—“๏ธ 25 April 2019

โฑ๏ธ 44 minutes

๐Ÿงพ๏ธ Download transcript

Summary

We are so thankful to have Jade and Tanner from Bachelor in Paradise on the show today. They have just recently shared on their YouTube channel about the miscarriage they had while they were on Bachelor in Paradise. They are so raw and real, and SO genuine. You guys are going to love them and we truly hope that they are able to encourage all of the mommy's and daddy's out there who are struggling and feeling so very alone. PLEASE reach out to us if you are feeling alone..no one should have to suffer in silence ๐Ÿ˜ข This is definitely an episode you don't want to miss! [00:30] - Jamie welcomes everyone to the show! Henley is teething, so she woke up and Doug is putting Henley back to bed, so Jamie chats with listeners. With it being infertility awareness week, we will later chat with Jade and Tanner about the miscarriage they suffered a few years ago, and suffered alone until very recently. [01:30] - If you have suffered from a miscarriage, our hearts go out to you and we hope this episode is an encouragement. [02:15] - Jamie shares appreciation for people sending messages and answers a fran's question regarding a current hot topic in the news: Senator Maureen Walsh made the statement, "[Nurses] probably play cards for a considerable amount of the day." [03:20] - Jamie shares excerpts from a blog post she came across talking about the different type of "cards" that nurses play and how the author, Kristina Smith, is thankful that they are card sharks! She is also the author of What I Wasn't Expecting When I Was Expecting, A Grieving Widow's Memoir. [05:44] - Jamie shares that nurses are the hardest working people she has ever met. [06:55] - Jamie reads a few different reviews that listeners have given and gives a quick explanation of why ads are needed to keep the podcast up! [10:10] - Jamie encourages listeners to stop and leave a review or screenshot while they are listening to the episode - we want to hear from you! [11:23] - Welcome Jade and Tanner to the show! Jade shares a little background of how she and Tanner met, and they share that they were married 7 months after they met! [13:35] - Jade and Tanner share about their miscarriage while filming Bachelor in Paradise and how they suffered alone for so long. Jade and Tanner give advice to listeners about what to do when you are struggling with the grief of miscarriage. [26:25] - Tanner talks about his season on The Bachelorette. [27:02] - Tanner tells Jamie that he remembers about hearing that Jamie had the most awkward moment on The Bachelor. [27:30] - Jade talks about her season on the Bachelor. [29:00] - Jamie shares that she thinks Jade and Tanner laid the groundwork for how Bachelor in Paradise should be because they are the first successful couple on Bachelor in Paradise. [30:00] - Jade and Tanner talk about the differences between The Bachelor, The Bachelorette, and Bachelor in Paradise. [32:26] - Jade tells listeners that they had their first kiss the first night of Bachelor in Paradise. [35:19] - Jade talks about moving to Kansas City to be with Tanner. [35:48] - Jamie and Doug talk to Jade and Tanner about their new little baby boy who is due in August and they throw around some fun names! [41:13] - Jamie asks Jade & Tanner a fran's question, "Why did you move to LA?" [44:10] - Jamie asks Jade if when she was on the Bachelor, if she ever felt like Chris could be the one? [46:00] - A fran asks the question to Jade and Tanner, "Would you let your daughter go on the Bachelor?" [47:55] - Doug and Jamie thank Jade and Tanner for all of their sweet advice for those suffering from a loss. [49:39] - Jamie talks about the need for having an episode sharing the guy's perspective of a loss. [52:35] - Doug says thank you to all of the listeners who follow him and Jamie on social media. Doug also shares what next week's episode will be about: Never Have I Ever with Doug and Jamie!!! Stay tuned! Married at First Sight Hot Marriage. Cool Parents. ... Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Can you count my fingers? How many fingers do I have?

0:02.8

Can you say hot marriage, cool parents?

0:08.8

I love it.

0:09.8

How we go to?

0:10.8

And you'll go to another. Good job.

0:14.0

Hey guys!

0:15.0

Hey guys! Welcome to a new episode of Hot Marriage Cool Parents.

0:18.0

So happy to have you here with us today.

0:20.0

And so excited because we have Jade and Tanner from the Bachelor world.

0:25.4

Bachelor in Paradise is where they met coming on later to talk.

0:28.1

You know, this week is Infertility Awareness Week and they recently shared about suffering a miscarriage.

0:34.1

You know this is something that they suffered from way back when they actually

0:37.6

were shooting the show Bachelor in Paradise. So they kept it private for a really long

0:41.4

time and I think that it's important for women to hear

0:44.5

their story because I think that you know I had just announced my pregnancy with

0:48.6

Jonathan and then lost him so I had no choice but to be very public about it but

0:52.4

had I not already been like out there in the world, I don't know if I would have been so public about it.

0:57.0

And the reason being is that, you know, it's just something that isn't talked about. There's like a stigma associated with sharing it. And so I think the amount of courage that it must have taken for Jane to share this and Tanner too, for them to be able to share this years later, it's just very courageous to them and I also think that there are

1:14.7

probably people listening to this right now so like maybe you or a friend who suffered

1:19.6

from something like this and never was able to share it and so you never really were able to agree with anyone

1:25.0

other than maybe your spouse or even just by yourself.

1:28.0

And that's just heartbreaking to me.

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