Ep 173: 7 Steps to Making Big Decisions (whether or not to have kids + we’re moving!)

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Hilary Rushford

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🗓️ 9 August 2023

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Summary

For years I’ve been endlessly making big decisions.

Did we want to have kids or not?

Were we supposed to leave NYC, and if so to go where?

These decisions were the two longest and hardest I’ve ever had to make, but I’m so grateful for this process that eventually lead me to peace.

As I wrestled with these decisions over the years, I took notes for you. Listen in for the 7 steps that helped me make these big choices in a way that left me with confidence when it came time.

Links in this episode:

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Earlier episodes on my decision to have kids or not:

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Transcript

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0:00.0	Friend, today we are talking about how to make really, really big, hard life-changing decisions.
0:07.3	And while I'm going to walk you through the seven steps I've taken over the last couple of years,
0:13.4	I walked all of this out in my Eleconexone journal.
0:18.2	It's where I started this vision casting, processed along the way, and am still daily self-coaching and supporting myself.
0:26.0	I created this system for myself and then published it to pass it on to you and it remains one of the tools I use daily.
0:34.0	So please get it and begin using yours today at elegantexcellentjournal.com, which is also linked in the episode description.
0:42.2	If you are ready to get unstuck, stop overthinking without it leading to action and yearning for more peace,
0:50.4	confidence, clarity, and joy in your choices, priorities, schedule, and life, get one headed your way in the mail today at elegantexcellentjournal.com.
1:03.0	And now on with the show.
1:09.0	You're welcome.
1:10.4	What was that?
1:11.4	You're welcome with Hillary Rushford.
1:13.8	Say it again.
1:14.6	You're welcome.
1:16.2	In advance.
1:18.6	I am taking such deep breaths as I start this episode, even though I already posted on Instagram.
1:27.6	It feels so hard and surreal to actually say it out loud, even though I've been saying it for years to friends and we finally told our family the summer.
1:38.6	We are moving.
1:40.6	I'm leaving New York City for now.
1:46.2	The only place I've ever called home since I left home where I've spent half my life at this point and it may not make sense to you why I am so emotional about that.
1:58.4	Maybe you moved a lot in your life or you don't particularly love where you live or you've never felt deeply connected to a place.
2:05.0	But what I want to talk about today is making really big agonizing life changing decisions.
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