Ep. 166 - Undefined relationships are relationships
How to Get Over Your Ex
Dorothy AB Johnson
4.7 • 577 Ratings
🗓️ 14 November 2022
⏱️ 41 minutes
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Summary
Were you in a "situation-ship" that's ended and now you're left feeling heartbroken and ashamed that you feel so miserable when it wasn't a defined relationship? Today, Braveheart Miranda and I discuss what heartbreak is like when you are going through a breakup of an "undefined" relationship.
In today's episode:
- Learn how to create closure without a breakup conversation
- Understand why anger feels productive after the ending of a situation-ship
- Become connected with yourself so much so that you don't reach outside of yourself anymore for validation, worth, or comfort
The Get Over Your Ex in 3 months or less program is open for enrollment Thursday 11/17 - if you sign up by Friday 11/18 you'll receive a complimentary breakup first aid kit in the mail along with your physical GOYE workbook and the how to handle heartbreak during the holidays course - see you inside!
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| 0:00.0 | You are listening to How to Get Over Your Ex, episode number 166. |
| 0:05.1 | Undefined relationships are relationships. |
| 0:23.5 | Welcome to How to Get Over Your Ex, a podcast on getting over your ex without it just taking time. |
| 0:29.2 | I'm your host, breakup coach Dorothy. Let's turn your pain into power and your heartbreak into happy. |
| 0:39.2 | Hello, Brave Hearts. How is everyone doing? I'm so excited today. I think I say that every time. I'm so excited today. |
| 0:44.5 | But truthfully, I am. Anytime I'm recording these interviews with Braveheart alumni, |
| 0:52.0 | it's just such a fun moment. I'm sitting here. I have Miranda across from me. And it's just a surreal experience because I can remember the first call we got on |
| 0:55.4 | and how that went and how devastated you were. And then to be here today talking to you, |
| 1:02.7 | you being a walking, living example of what's possible after heartbreak, it's just like a |
| 1:07.7 | full circle moment. And I know it might be a full circle moment for you, |
| 1:11.4 | but it's also a full circle moment for me as well, just watching your progress and you moving |
| 1:16.9 | throughout life and just such an honor to be here. So thank you so much, Miranda. So excited to have |
| 1:22.7 | you here today. And I'm going to let you go ahead and introduce yourself. Tell us a little bit about who you are, |
| 1:28.8 | where you are, what you do, and tell us what your breakup story was. |
| 1:34.3 | Hi, everyone. So my name is Miranda. I am 31 years old. I live in Brooklyn, New York. I'm originally |
| 1:43.4 | from the West Coast, California. I'm actually |
| 1:46.8 | going back to California early next year, so that's going to be a really fun, exciting life |
| 1:54.2 | change. I am a social worker. I have been doing social work for, I don't even know, like seven years now. |
| 2:04.9 | And I'm really excited to be on the podcast today because like a lot of people, the podcast is what got me into the program. |
| 2:13.7 | And yeah, listening to other people's stories on the podcast was really inspiring for me. |
| 2:22.2 | So yeah, excited to be here. Also, congratulations on moving to California. When you were saying that, |
| 2:30.0 | I was like, you just look from your, like, like, you're from the West Coast. Like your vibe and everything about you is West Coast. |
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