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M Is for Mama Podcast

Ep. 145: Contentment for Christian Women (A Chat with Tilly Dillehay)

M Is for Mama Podcast

Abbie Halberstadt

Kids & Family, Parenting

4.91.3K Ratings

🗓️ 29 April 2026

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

What if we truly believe our contentment were not linked to our circumstances—that we really do have the ability to give thanks in all circumstances, as we’re exhorted to do by Scripture?


What would it change?


For the Christian woman mired in bitterness and comparison, the answer just might be “everything.”


In this conversation with Tilly Dillehay, we explore the influences in modern culture that drive Christian women to consider themselves short-changed by their husbands, their children, and, ultimately, God. 


Join us for a thought-provoking show sure to step on your toes a little even while it encourages you to keep your eyes squarely focused on Christ.



Guest Info:


Tilly Dillehay


Buy Tilly's Book My Dear Hemlock Here!


Check Out Her Podcast Home Fires Here!


Follow Tilly On Instagram!



Bible References:


Genesis 3:1


Philippians 4:4-13


Romans 7:15-20


Psalm 116:15


1 Corinthians 10:31


Philippians 2


Matthew 16:24-26


Genesis 1:27


1 Corinthians 14:33


Proverbs 31


Galatians 6:2


Galatians 5:1


1 John 5:4-5


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Keepers of the Home Podcast


Ma Ingalls Reel


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome to the MS for Mama podcast. I'm your host, Abby Halberstadt, happy wife, Mama to 10 Bible Believing Christian.

0:12.7

And today's conversation on the show has to do with all three of those categories.

0:16.5

Motherhood, being a wife, being a Christian woman, and we are pushing back against the lies of culture

0:22.7

and the implication that we are at once called to do too much and also appreciated too little

0:29.6

and yet no one else could do it like we do. There are so many conflicting opinions when it comes

0:34.0

to a secular mindset around what it means to be a woman. And I love that my guest, Tilly Dilla Hay, is addressing it head on with wit, with humor,

0:42.5

with a bit of prodding to get to the heart of the thing.

0:46.6

And I think that that is the goal of this conversation.

0:49.0

And I hope it's something that you take away a lot from and provokes a lot of thought

0:51.9

and really helps you to reconsider if you're

0:55.3

looking at things through a biblical lens or a worldly lens. Okay, friends, today we are

1:00.9

tackling a topic that ends up in my inbox all of the time. And I say a topic, but it's

1:07.6

kind of a hard to define idea. And it is the concept of how Christian women interact with the

1:18.7

influences of the world and how the world tells us we should feel as women. And so my guest today is

1:24.8

Tilly Dilla Hay, who has written, among several things, a book called

1:28.7

My Dear Himlock, which is very much so in the vein of C.S. Lewis's screw tape letters.

1:33.7

There's this she demon who is basically trying to infiltrate the minds of what she calls, what she

1:41.2

calls the patient, the mind of the patient to get her to turn away from all things

1:46.7

godly, all things common sense, all things feminine in the way that God has designed us,

1:52.1

and instead to constantly be suspiciously examining the motives of anyone who teaches God's

1:58.7

word to her and say, is that, you know, kind of way back to the garden. Is that what God really said? Is that what he really meant? Is that what he really wants for you? Did I do that justice at all, Tilly? Yeah, you're right there. You're right there in the zone. Yep. Awesome. Well, welcome on the show. Maybe introduce yourself to those of us that have not gotten to spend a lot of time with you and tell us a little bit about yourself.

2:20.6

Yeah.

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