Ep 144: How To Say Goodbye // Draw The Line Series with Bianca Juarez Olthoff

We're Going There with Bianca Juarez

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Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

5.0 • 839 Ratings

🗓️ 15 February 2024

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

Are there things in your life today that don’t align with your vision of tomorrow? What do you need to leave behind as you move forward into the future that God has for you? It’s hard to let go of things. Trust me, I know. It is important to realize that in order for us to experience personal growth and find spiritual success, we need to have necessary endings in our lives. Boundaries are necessary, and so are endings. That’s why today we will explore: The need to manage expectations and investments in our relationships The concept of pruning and setting boundaries The emotional epidemic of entitlement The dangers of enabling others If there is a relationship or a situation that is holding you back from reaching your best self, it’s time to let it go. Trust God and His plan for your life. If this series has made an impact in your life, share it with me by tagging me @biancaolthoff I Love you, friend, B RESOURCES/LINKS Necessary Endings // When to Say Good Bye // Boundary Lines // Bianca Olthoff Quote If somebody says that they love you, but they reject your boundaries, they're not for you. Takeaways Endings are hard, but they are necessary for growth and spiritual success. Setting boundaries is an act of love and self-care. Evaluate your expectations and investments in relationships. Letting go of relationships and situations that no longer fit your future is essential for personal growth and fulfilling God's plan for your life. ⋇ Convoy of Hope - Empowering Women and Girls Together Donate here ⋇ Order Bianca’s new book GRIT DON’T QUIT ⋇ The Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study is now available. ⋇ So grateful to our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by NOTES® Candle. Make the switch and build a starter kit. Right now Notes is giving listeners 15% off AND free shipping when you buy a Notes starter kit using code GOINGTHERE at notescandle.com/GOINGTHERE ⋇ Subscribe to We’re Going There on your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss out on any of the great topics and conversations. Don’t forget to leave a loving review! Apple Spotify Google ⋇ Visit biancaolthoff.com/resources to learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. ⋇ Want to stay connected, join the community today. ⋇ WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org ⋇ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	And if somebody says that they love you,
0:02.2	but they reject your boundaries, they're not for you.
0:05.9	It's about time because we're going there.
0:09.3	Love is in the air this season.
0:11.6	So I'm popping in this week for a fun series on dating sex and yes relationships.
0:16.5	I'm passionate about having good and healthy conversations
0:19.2	around the subject of relationships
0:20.8	because sometimes we as a Christian community avoid these topics or we simply get embarrassed
0:26.3	and don't want to talk about things in a safe place.
0:28.8	So this week on the podcast, we're going there.
0:32.1	Due to the subject nature, some conversations might not be suitable for young ears, so grab
0:36.1	your headphones and be forewarned. As many of you know, I am a Bible teacher and lead a church community called
0:41.2	the Father's House OC in Orange County, California. The content from this series, I taught a while
0:46.9	back and I believe it will help you navigate life and love. Thanks for being part of this community,
0:51.5	friends. We are at the end of our Boundary Line series, and I am feeling a certain way.
0:59.0	I am feeling a certain way. If you know me, you know I love to talk about two things all the time.
1:04.0	I love to talk about the Bible and I love to talk about relationships.
1:07.0	And this relationship, this whole relationship series has been about what? The Bible and relationships.
1:12.6	So I feel like I'm in my jam and now we're coming to an end. And if you know me, I have a problem
1:19.0	with letting go. In fact, James tells us to confess your trespasses amongst the brethren and God
1:24.8	is faithful and justice. Forgive us. What does that mean in regular people terms? It means that we're around each other, that we lay our sins down and
1:30.9	God will forgive us. So I just got to tell myself today and let you know, I just don't like
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