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M Is for Mama Podcast

Ep. 133: “Must Be Nice” (And Other Lies That Steal Our Joy)

M Is for Mama Podcast

Abbie Halberstadt

Kids & Family, Parenting

4.91.3K Ratings

🗓️ 4 February 2026

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

What if we truly believed God’s power gave us everything we need for life and godliness? That His power really is made perfect in our weakness? That His grace is actually sufficient for every circumstance we encounter?


In this episode, we dive into the kind of thought patterns that keep us stuck in resentment + bitterness, instead of contentment (“must be nice” and “if I had what she had, I’d be able to…” are big ones!). And we talk about practical ways to reshape our thoughts to align with Truth from God’s Word. 


The Bible tells us we are already overcomers if we have Christ. The goal is to truly start to believe and act on it!

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Mentions:


You Bet Your Stretch Marks


Bible References:


John 16:33


James 1:17


Matthew 22:36-40


Matthew 7:13-14


2 Peter 1:3-4


2 Corinthians 12:9


2 Corinthians 12:10


Matthew 5


1 Peter 5:7


Mark 9:24


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome to the MS for Mama podcast. I'm your host, Abby Halberstadt,

0:08.6

happy wife, mom at 10, Bible Believing Christian. And we're going to tackle a topic on today's

0:13.5

podcast that has been rolling around in my brain for a while. It might step on some toes,

0:16.8

but that's okay. But before we dive in, I want to highlight our brand new podcast sponsor tighten your

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I also want to remind you to get your

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kids registered for Summit Ministries's summer apologetics camps. If you have a child from ages 13 to 25,

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they have such wonderful programs for helping to solidify their faith, give them practical,

1:10.0

biblically based answers for the hard questions that

1:13.6

culture is throwing at them and help them to be confident and bold when they are confronted with

1:18.3

lies. You can send your students in person, although their spaces are filling up very quickly,

1:22.9

or you can watch together as a whole family online, which I think is a fantastic option.

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If you are ready to engage with Summit's immersive worldview trainings that help your children to stand strong in an

1:33.5

unshakable faith, you can use the code mama 26 at summit.org slash mama for a total of $500

1:41.4

off their in-person conference fees when you combine my code with their

1:46.7

early bird pricing. Both of my older boys have attended summit multiple times that have come

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