EP. 13 | Reimagining The American Dream feat. Dometi Pongo

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🗓️ 6 May 2025

⏱️ 67 minutes

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On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by journalist and cultural commentator Dometi Pongo for a thoughtful and timely conversation about the shifting meaning of the American Dream (00:00). Together, they examine how societal promises of success have evolved—especially for younger generations—and how factors like student debt, economic disparity, and generational trauma have made the traditional path to "making it" feel more like a myth than a milestone (10:00). They discuss how poverty is experienced and perceived in America compared to other parts of the world (29:55), and how hustle culture and the pursuit of titles can often mask deeper feelings of discontent (20:06, 40:03). Throughout the episode, Mandii and Dometi dissect the weight of societal expectations (41:57), question the true value of college degrees, and explore how individuals—especially those from marginalized communities—can reclaim the narrative by defining success on their own terms (57:05). They emphasize the power of community, shared responsibility (45:18), and cultural awareness in reshaping how we view ambition, purpose, and personal fulfillment (49:22). With honesty, wit, and insight, this episode offers a refreshing take on what it means to thrive in today’s world—without losing yourself chasing someone else’s dream.

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0:00.0	Welcome to another episode of Selective Ignorance.
0:03.7	It's your girl, Mandy B.
0:05.6	And you know what?
0:07.2	I'm tired.
0:08.4	Tired of the lie we was sold.
0:11.0	That shiny little thing called the American Dream.
0:13.7	The one with the degrees, the 9 to 5 in the house with the white picket fence, two kids, and the Golden Retriever.
0:19.5	Yep, that dream.
0:20.6	And it's looking more like a
0:21.8	nightmare these days. Now listen, I got degrees, plural, okay? And with them, debt. Deep soul-snatching,
0:30.3	interest accruing debt. They said education was key, but forgot to mention it unlocked bills,
0:36.2	not wealth. And in this economy, those degrees
0:39.2	don't guarantee shit. Rent is higher than salaries, eggs cost more than my sanity, and don't get me
0:46.8	started on trying to own anything. Y'all heard my thoughts and views on purchasing and owning property in my episode with ish and if you
0:56.6	haven't make sure you go check that out and relationships don't even match the script anymore
1:03.7	we were told to find the one settle down split bills and raise a family but these outdated
1:09.5	gender roles these unrealistic timelines,
1:12.9	that's not partnership, that's pressure. The truth is, the dream was never built for all of us.
1:18.3	It was curated for a time, a people, and a privilege. Y'all see what I did there? That doesn't reflect
1:23.8	the chaos we live in now. And yet, we still feel guilty when we can't make it all happen.
1:29.4	Nah, it's not us.
1:30.3	It's the dream that's broken.
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