What's up guys? Welcome back to the podcast. Hope everyone had an absolutely

sexy weekend. I hope I had a sexy weekend for the love of Christ. Okay?

I was in New York. I hope that I had fun with Wigg. I hope that I just

dance my little ass off because I like to let off steam. My mom would be like, you know what, you're

about to go on a book tour for two weeks. You should be resting and you know how I like to rest shaking my

ass okay? So I hope I had fun in a safe way and I hope I'm not too puffy. My book is out tomorrow. So let's just all hold hands and pray at this point. It's like I just kind of like I don't know delusion fear what will happen. But it's out tomorrow. So that's exciting. I'm very very excited I think like even

the just hearing a few people who've gotten the advanced copies and like the

advanced audio books like

so stress relieving so I feel like once people start to read it'll be good. Anyway, have a lot of fun

recaps for you and then I want to talk about the expectation of liking your friends,

boyfriends and husbands because I have changed my fucking mind on this.

I have changed so much and I want to tell you why. So that's that. So we talk a lot in this podcast and in general about changing friendships and being in different places in your life as your friends.

And I had two experiences last week

that I want to share with you guys

so that I inspire you, comfort you,

all that in between.

So first of all, my girlfriend V,

who I've been friends with since I went to college,

so we've been friends for like 13.

We found a picture and it was like 13 years ago. It was so crazy. She lives in the Bay Area. She has two little babies. Just two daughters. They're so cute. I haven't seen her in over two years. And we had this idea that she would come down and you know obviously it is I have

no way of understanding how hard it is to leave your kids for even a night but I know it's very hard and she she made the trip and she was like you know what we were going

back and forth like should we do it our other girlfriend couldn't come in the end and she was like oh we

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