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So What Now? with Carla and Dex

EP 119: WTF, Am I Lonely? Feat Nami

So What Now? with Carla and Dex

Idea to Launch Productions

Society & Culture, Personal Journals

4.8 β€’ 592 Ratings

πŸ—“οΈ 17 June 2020

⏱️ 80 minutes

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Summary

"No one could ever understand what I'm going through!"

Is this a thought that you've had before? With everything that's been going on in the world, it's easy to feel… alone.Β 

I've been trying to identify the difference between loneliness and depression. In the state of loneliness it's easy to confuse distress and isolation as depression. As heavy as these topics feel and sound, this conversation flows very light heartedly and genuinely. I am meeting this person for the very first time! That goes to show how human we all are at the core.

Join me as I talk to a master in clinical psychology about the differences between the state of loneliness, versus clinical depression. We talk about Isa & Molly's relationship and how it clearly shows signs of loneliness, our overwhelmingly constraining cultural upbringing, self- sabotashing characteristics, etc. I promise, the conversation is less daunting as these topics seem. You may even leave feeling… relieved and less isolated.Β 

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0:00.0

Well, hello there. It's another day for another podcast. But before we get started, I want to let you know that tomorrow, June 18th, I will be having a free class on how to launch your podcast in 30 days. And I will be sponsoring two spots and enrollment for idea to launch academy so you can launch your own podcast in 30 days. You will get enrolled for the free, but you have to be there live.

0:23.9

So the description onto how to sign up is on the description on the episode.

0:27.9

Now for those of you that are like, yeah, podcasting is not for me, girl.

0:31.7

Like, keep it moving.

0:33.0

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0:35.9

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for slash shit I'm 30. Now let's go ahead and get started with the show.

1:06.3

Welcome to the shit I'm 30 podcast. This is the weekly show where we discuss and share our unfiltered opinions on topics such as mental health, relationships.

1:15.1

Sometimes it gets a little bit as kinky and we talk about sex, parenting, and so much more.

1:19.9

With me, your host, Carla Wemares.

1:21.7

Now, my goal is to get rid of society's expectations about where we should be when we're in our 30s and just free ourselves to live the lives that we've always dreamed of. Now friends remember it is never too late.

1:33.8

Welcome back guys to another episode of shit. I'm 30 with me your host car level mares. I hope

1:38.7

you're having an amazing weekend in the midst of everything that is going out in the world right

1:43.3

now. I feel like it can be a time where we're like depressed and getting overwhelmed.

1:47.6

I've been there.

1:48.6

I feel it.

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