Welcome to the shit on 30 podcast.

This is the weekly show where we discuss and share our unfiltered opinions on topics such as mental health, relationships.

Sometimes it gets a little bit as kinky and we talk about sex, parenting, and so much more.

With me your host, Carla Wemares.

Now, my goal is to get rid of society's expectations about where we should be when we're in our 30s and just free ourselves to live the lives that we've always dreamed of. Now, friends, remember, it is never too late. You made me cook my old fucking dinner last night. I did. I did make you cook your own. It wasn't cooking. You reheated it and you ate cold.

I cook my own fucking dinner. You know when you do like a, you have to reheat this stuff and I don't have a microwave. So it's either on the stove or in the oven. Well, he had it in the oven, but literally I can hear it because I'm finishing up with my seminar last night. And he puts it probably not even five minutes. And I'm like from the refrigerator to the oven, there's no way it's warm in five minutes. So I'm watching him sitting. I don't know the fuck I'm doing. I'm sitting you on the table eating. And I'm like, I know you're taking some cold bites out of that bitch. Yes. And I told you. Every other bite it was cold. It just looked cold. I'm like, there's no way you got that right. So how do you think my story's something's supposed to feel last night?

Well, just because it's cold. It just looked cold. I'm like, there's no way you got that right.

So how do you think my stomach's supposed to feel last night?

Well, just because it's cold doesn't mean it's going to fuck up your stomach. It was the beans. Too many beans, man. That shit laid my eyes down. It showed dead. But let's go ahead and get started with the show. and it was the shit you should know

that we do in the beginning

and we did something kind of cool

so I went

we took a test

so we took it's called shit you should know that we do in the beginning and we did something kind of cool so I want

we took a test so we took it's called a hold on a relationship attachment style so how do you

attach to relationships and I think it's for uh loving like romantic relationships right may it's the way

you attach in general family friends but we kind of deal with romance more often. Okay. Yeah. So it definitely has to do with the romance aspect of it. So I'm like, let us take this test. So in the description to the show, there is a link to take the test and you can take it yourself. And there's four different four different attachments and behaviors one is secure the other one is anxious dismissive avoidant and dismissive

fearful i didn't get this i didn't get that same test yeah we did the same test no we didn't

that mine did not say that oh it's not going to say that. I'm telling everyone what are the four, like, possible outcomes. No, my outcomes wasn't those. Yes, you had a, we'll talk about what you had. Jesus. Yes, you did. Let me see your outcomes. Let me see. We had this one. No, I didn't. Yes, you did. Mind said most likely true or false.

Okay, yes, you did. Mine said most likely true or false. Okay. Yes, your test did say true and false. Yeah. Yes. That was the test. Those were the questions. You had to answer true or false. That's not the results, baby. Oh. You're fucking idiot. See how you talk to? Ah, you're so, ugh. I just want to know to know. So I'm going to go over them really quick. But if you want, you can pause the show right here to see which one you are. It takes about 20 minutes. For Wax, it took about an hour and a half. He wasn't sure what the words meant. I wasn't. At this moment, I was mad at of... I was mad at him, but like a little bit more pretend mad than really mad. So I was vacuuming the shit out of this fucking floor. Like, no carpet or nothing. This motherfucker was on the top of the fucking ceiling. Fucking... I'm looking at her dumbass. Wait, I really was vacuuming the ceiling. I'm like, look at her.

You just want to tell me that you're doing something.

I don't give a fuck.

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