EP 112: Boundaries, Discernment & the Holy Spirit: Loving Without Losing Wisdom
In Totality with Megan Ashley
Megan Ashley
4.9 • 4.3K Ratings
🗓️ 21 April 2026
⏱️ 64 minutes
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Summary
Hey guys! This week, i'm back with the team for an unconventional episode where I answer some questions from my Patreon Village!
We discuss topics of marriage, trusting God in seasons of singleness, dating in Christ with wisdom and intention, and how to love others from a place of intimacy with the Lord.
We also unpack healthy boundaries, how to rely on community when dating, the voice of the Holy Spirit, and so much more.
If you've been asking God for wisdom in relationships, struggling to trust Him with your future, or struggling to discern what faithfulness looks like in this season, this conversation is for you.
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| 0:00.0 | What's up, family? Before we jump into today's episode, I want to share something close to my heart, |
| 0:05.5 | our in totality Patreon community, The Village. If you ever listen to the podcast and you thought, |
| 0:10.8 | wow, I really wish there was more, this is exactly why I created this space. You'll receive |
| 0:16.2 | early access to every episode, so while others are hearing it for the first time, you'll already be watching |
| 0:21.6 | it and soaking it in. But it's not just that. You'll also get access to the Inotality do |
| 0:26.6 | docu-series, which is like my vlog, which shows what I do when I'm not on the podcast. And that's not |
| 0:32.4 | it. You'll also be the first to know about merch drops, events, and opportunities to connect in real life. |
| 0:39.3 | One of my favorite parts is our Bible study and book clubs where we're walking through |
| 0:43.3 | scripture together and encouraging one another in the faith. On Patreon, we are building a community |
| 0:49.3 | that truly desires a relationship with the Lord, pursues truth, and supports one another. And I would love for you |
| 0:55.9 | to be a part of that. So if you want more, come join the village on Patreon. The link is in the |
| 1:01.5 | description and I can't wait to see you there. The first question is how to endure in a marriage when it gets hard and how to remain |
| 1:12.8 | obedient and submit to your husband's leadership when you don't know if you trust it at the |
| 1:16.5 | moment. Most people know that I was married for 13 years. There's nobody that probably has the |
| 1:22.6 | potential of hurting you more than the person that you're married to. Marriage is sanctification. I'm going to put |
| 1:30.2 | your needs above mine. I'm going to love you. I'm going to honor you. I'm going to support you and |
| 1:34.5 | respect you in spite of how I feel. Guys have a hard time dating in Christ. I guess it depends on like |
| 1:41.4 | how far gone you were before Christ. Jesus. |
| 1:51.1 | The second that you have an interaction with the office's sex, you are immediately, is this my spouse? |
| 1:54.0 | Let me just get to know you as a person. |
| 1:56.3 | Because I don't want to waste my time, right? |
| 1:58.1 | I don't want to waste somebody else's time. |
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