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Hot Marriage. Cool Parents.

Ep. 104 Transracial Adoption, Miscarriage, and Rainbow Babies with Jamie’s Girlfran, Jeena Wilder!

Hot Marriage. Cool Parents.

Jamie Otis and Doug Hehner

Society & Culture, Tv & Film, Personal Journals, Kids & Family

4.51.8K Ratings

🗓️ 16 January 2021

⏱️ 70 minutes

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Summary

We are super excited to share this raw and very vulnerable conversation we were able to have with Jeena Wilder. She’s not only a mama to 4 kiddos, but she is an ultimate boss babe! Her family is truly the modern all American family and it is so inspiring! She absolutely radiates positivity over on IG! Jeena and her hubby are an interracial couple with four beautiful children; one adopted and the others biological, but alllll loved the same! 5:59 - Jeena shares about life right now and also shares some exciting news! 15:12 - Jeena shares about the difficulties of going through a miscarriage as well as getting pregnant during the pandemic. 18:06 - Doug asks, with the pandemic going on, is your birth plan different than when you had your other children? 25:08 - Jeena shares about a time when someone questioned in front of her children if she was her daughter’s mother. 29:43 - Doug asks, how did you bridge the conversation or did you and your husband prepare for the day you had to give that talk? 39:56 - Jamie asks, when people say that their children are too young to talk about race or they don’t see color, what is your response? 43:41 - Jamie asks, if I am a momma, white, black, gray, yellow, whatever and I want to teach my kid about racism, what are some steps that I could take to ensure that my child is growing up with more of an open mind? 47:16 - Doug asks, as far as raising your children, is being Haitian part of raising them as well? 49:01 - Jamie asks, I want to clarify for those listening, so you have 2 biracial kids that you birthed and then you have your daughter who you adopted at the age 2 ½ or so? Is that right? 49:51 - Jamie asks, what brought your daughter to your family? What’s her story? 53:56 - Jamie asks, what is the biggest challenge you have had to face since adopting your daughter because as you know I am really interested! 59:00 - Jeena encourages Jamie and Doug that it is important to understand that adoption is not for everyone, but if you are considering things, she encourages you to look into fostering. Check back next Friday for another fantastic episode! Wash your hands and wear the dang mask :) Jeena’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeenawilder/ And thank you to our sponsors: Sweaty Betty - Because you deserve to look amazing before, during and after your workout, go to SweatyBetty.com/HMCP and use our code HMCP at checkout to get 20% off your purchase. March of Dimes - January is birth defects prevention month. Some birth defects are preventable and there are steps one can take to minimize the likelihood of your child being born with birth defects. They include: Protect yourself from COVID-19 Be sure to take 400 micrograms (mcg) of folic acid every day Get a pre-pregnancy checkup Stay up-to-date on vaccines Before you get pregnant, try to reach a healthy weight Avoid substances that are harmful during pregnancy Learn more at: marchofdimes.org/birthdefects & https://www.marchofdimes.org/complications/january-is-national-birth-defects-prevention-month.aspx Moshi App - Download the Moshi app on App Store or Google Play Store and get access to a 1 week free trial of Moshi Premium! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

I've never seen you so happy.

0:05.0

Touch down!

0:09.0

Hey guys and welcome back to Hot Marriage Cool Parents for another week with an amazing guest.

0:18.4

Okay, so last week we had Marsha Cross on and it was incredible. I just love her transparency and her passion.

0:25.4

I've never met a woman that loves her anus more. I mean Douglas but I mean I'm I'm learning

0:31.5

It has to become a normal conversation that's what she said that's true. It's very true

0:35.3

I'm learning to love my anus more myself and I should potentially get my anus checked because we all should. Yeah actually we all should but but I do have

0:44.6

hemorrhoids which I whisper like that's like I yeah yeah me and my whispering

0:50.2

but uh we have an amazing guest on today and we're not going to spend too much time

0:55.3

Chit-Chit-Chatting prior to having her on because we had such a long in-depth

0:59.9

beautiful meaningful conversation with her. A lot of important topics.

1:03.7

Yeah, her name's Gina Wilder, and she is a Haitian woman who married a white man,

1:10.4

and she has obviously biracial children and she adopted a white daughter and some of the

1:15.2

stories that she has to share about the adoption process, what it's like to be a black mom

1:20.6

to a white daughter. It's really revealing

1:25.2

like the just the times that we're growing up in.

1:27.4

And I've really, ever since I've seen George Floyd,

1:30.6

I've really been on my own personal mission to combat racism in myself but also grow like

1:36.4

raise my babies to be anti-racist and pro-actively be like you know pro black pro pro yellow,

1:44.0

yellow, pro gray, purple, like every color.

1:46.0

Like, I mean, let's, I mean, the color of your skin

1:49.0

is the color of your skin.

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