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Wabi Sabi - The Perfectly Imperfect Podcast with Candice Kumai

EP 05 - How to make it BIG in Biz + Stay Real AF: The Art of Not Conforming

Wabi Sabi - The Perfectly Imperfect Podcast with Candice Kumai

Candice Kumai

Health & Fitness, Education, Health, Wabisabi, How To, Nutrition, Mental Health, Wellness

4.9793 Ratings

🗓️ 15 December 2021

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

⚡the art of not conforming: My career, as an artist I went w my heart, even if it got smashed, which it did many times. As a female in the food industry, the pain/discrimination was part of my path. This year, with new endeavors + content w @SXSW, @Forbes, @Girlboss, @ariannahuff, @iamwellandgood Council + the new book @harpercollinsus Oprah Magazine, Today Show + Dr. Oz: I’m committed to sharing my story, in hopes you can see, a girl who started from the bottom, waiting tables in college, fit modeling to pay bills, paying for culinary school on my own, this girl does it all: Here's what we will learn in episode #5:  Here are my Best Tips on "Making Shit Happen": 1- Execution trumps all talk. If you want to be a killer, you need to produce. Anyone can talk or troll, but it takes a true artist to pick up the brush, the mic, the camera, the knife, the pen + get going. DO SOMETHING, just start. 2- Ignore the haters. If I listened to all the mean shit people laid on me for years, I'd never equate to anything. You have to ignore+remember that's about them, not you. Pray for them. 🙏🏼 3- Integrity+Grit: those two things set me apart from the rest. I always did my best & never cut slack. I'm as hard on myself as I am my team. I expect excellence, that's what the reader deserves. Recipes that work, images that captivate, content that matters! Writing that changes the world, and evokes emotion, connection + action. That's what grit+integrity do. I write ALL of my own work, recipes, my site, my newsletters, I produce/direct each of my books & shoot my own content/videos⚡the art is in the artist. 4- Skills: I learned them. I went to culinary school at 22 -- I was  young+thirsty. I worked in restaurants +production for years, I educated myself on Japan, nutrition+wellness. I didn't come from money, I had to teach myself skills. Much like Japan, a country w no natural resources; they were out of luck- until they realized SKILL was what they could offer the world. Guess what? At the size of California, they are still a world power today. Get some skills, use them, humbly+gracefully. 5- Humility + Grace: This is what my character is made out of. Mom + Dad taught me to love, to be kind, to be respectful. Although I hate rules, I respect everyone, even when they were shitty to me. Grace Always Matters. You will in this life, get what you give. Be honest, be real, and you don't have to conform for anyone 🦄  My new book, Kintsugi Wellness has 12 chapters on how to heal, mend, grow + become a better person + 50+ inspiring wellness recipes.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey guys, what's up? It's Candace Kay. I'm back in New York at home in Brooklyn for my amazing

0:11.7

trip to Italia and Sardinia and I had the best time. I find myself always putting my work out there into the world and having the world give a little

0:25.3

bit back to me as well. So thank you to all of my Italian friends, especially Julia and

0:32.5

Mariana and Pepe and my friend Nikki who met me out there from Austin.

0:40.5

She's one of my best friends.

0:42.2

We had like the best time.

0:44.0

It was amazing.

0:44.9

I got stung by jellyfish.

0:47.3

It was like the highlight.

0:49.9

But I did want to prep out podcast number five for you because I'm starting to realize in my heart that this self-funded podcast has been the greatest contribution I've ever given to you.

1:04.1

Even though I've written plenty of books and I write for all the mags and I've hosted, you know, TV shows and work in media. This has been

1:13.9

amazing because you're writing to me every day, you're writing to me in my comments and my DMs

1:20.4

on Insta and email and I'm like so in love with all of you and how real that you all are.

1:31.0

And there are, there's like 99.9% love and there's always that 1% of stupid haters

1:39.3

who could suck a dick.

1:41.6

So I'm just really grateful and um really truly feeling um lots of drake

1:52.9

and g easy and saying fuck fake friends um as of late and also like really trying to find my way by sharing with you all of my mistakes

2:06.0

and my pain and my losses. And so before we start podcast number five, which I'm really proud of,

2:12.0

which is about the art of not conforming to what society wants you to do and sort of little tips on how to move forward

2:20.5

on working independently and running your own small business. I wanted to read to you a quote

2:26.7

that I thought was really amazing from Gary Vee. And it's something that I read recently and it

2:32.9

really stuck with me.

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