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Find Your Food Voice

Ep 044: Food is my enemy (with Fiona Sutherland).

Find Your Food Voice

Julie Duffy Dillon RDN

Nutrition, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.9 • 750 Ratings

🗓️ 14 November 2016

⏱️ 35 minutes

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Summary

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Do you have a hard time eating without worrying about "good" and "bad" food labels? Do you feel like food is your enemy? Do you feel overwhelmed by all the nutrition info out there? Join Julie and fellow dietitian Fiona Southerland to start unpacking this issue!

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Key Points:

  • Our bodies have lots of different methods, including our brains and our intuition, to help them figure out what they needs in terms of food in order to feel satisfied and full.
  • Healthy eating includes PLEASURE!
  • Fiona Southerland joins to help answer this week’s letter!
  • Self-compassion and kindness is super important when we confront our beliefs related to food rules.
  • We are not alone… so many of us feel this way.
  • It’s impossible to follow every single food rule!
  • The more we try to follow rules and live in our heads (intellectualizing!), the less we listen to our body and intuition (innate wisdom!).
  • There are so many crazy things going on in the world… why are we focused on whether or not something has gluten in it?!
  • Even the professionals don’t know everything about nutrition… it’s confusing!
  • When we try to control things that weren’t supposed to be controlled (like our food intake) we go haywire.
  • Our culture is confusing health with our appearance (like our body shape).
  • Our expectations about the female body inform our opinions of health.
  • Fiona’s "Build up and let go model:" build up our skills of inner awareness, which will allow us to let go of rigidity.
  • We need skills related to our intuition in order to drop the food rules and stick to it!
  • How do we find a stable place outside of food when we feel out of control with our body?
  • The wise parts of us are not perfect!
  • Intuitive eating can become another set of diet rules… don’t let it!
  • The foundation of intuitive eating is unconditional permission to eat.
  • We must help people build long-term resilience against the cultural crap! Self-care and personal connection are super helpful for our wellbeing, and we have to return to our well of wisdom and call upon a stable place of self-compassion to take care or ourselves and move past cultural expectations.
  • Intuitive eating is s different way of BEING with food. It’s peace. But it’s scary, and that’s okay!
  • Perfectionism and the all-or-nothing approach can get in the way of healing around food.
  • Fiona says, “Reassurance without assurance”… we will support you through the confusion!
  • HEALING YOUR RELATIONSHIP TO FOOD IS MESSY!! (Cultivate the mess!)
  • Although knowledge is important, it can take us away from living. It’s time to slow down and hone in on our intuition.

Show Notes:

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1:01.7

forward slash love food for more information. Say goodbye to the food police and hello to peace.

1:10.3

Welcome to the Love Food podcast hosted by award-winning dietitian and food behavior expert Julie Duffy Dillon. This authentically engineered series is in the form of a love letter welcoming you to reconnect with food. Now pour a cup of coffee or a margarita and let's begin.

1:41.2

Hi and welcome to episode 44 of a love food podcast.

1:46.0

I am Julie Duffy Dillon, registered dietitian, and food peace promoter.

1:47.5

I'm so glad you're here.

1:49.5

Thank you for connecting today. And I am ecstatic to finally share this episode with you because I personally finally got to talk to someone that I have gotten to know over the years, thanks to social media.

2:02.1

Her name is Fiona Sutherland, and she's a dietitian in Australia. And this podcast has given me

2:08.1

the opportunity to finally be able to talk to her. And I feel like this podcast gave us a reason

2:15.3

to finally connect live. And she's going to help us with today's letter.

2:19.4

And I think you'll find from listening to Today's letter that a lot of us, including this letter writer, and maybe you two, are stuck in our heads and the knowledge that we have cultivated about food.

2:33.2

And oftentimes that knowledge conflicts with

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