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Find Your Food Voice

Ep 037: I can't be free until I lose the weight.

Find Your Food Voice

Julie Duffy Dillon RDN

Health & Fitness, Nutrition, Mental Health

4.9750 Ratings

🗓️ 26 September 2016

⏱️ 18 minutes

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Summary

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Do you think if you lost weight you'd finally be free? Are you stuck in a loop of binge--> notice weight gain--> diet--> binge--> repeat? Feel like you would be free from its hellish grip if you could just lose the weight?? Like the binges would cease to exist once the weight was lost?? Do you wonder why you have been trapped in this for decades?? Julie sees what's blocking your path. Listen now for insight.

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Key Points:

  • Content warning: specific weight discussion
  • Healthy vs unhealthy versions of food = food dichotomy = black and white thinking = perfectionism that doesn't even exist. This is a disordered eating pattern and will keep you stuck in this loop.
  • Practice giving yourself permission to eat these "unhealthy foods" although not easy. Can typically take a year for this to stick.
  • Freedom will only happen by not place your worth and value in your weight and weight loss pursuit.
  • Pursuing weight loss keeps us in the disordered eating loop. Keeps foods in that dichotomy.
  • The pursuit of weight loss would enhance the binge/diet loop and enhance the black and white thinking.
  • How do you move away from using weight as a measure of health and worth?? Find a counselor and dietitian who align with these values.
  • When seduced by the fantasy of losing weight be aware that is happening and call it out as the mindfuck that it is. Expect sadness, grief, and anger.
  • You don't need to fight yourself to find freedom. Rather you need to fight the culture. You need to fight body hate in order to find your own food peace.

Show Notes:

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Transcript

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0:00.0

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0:27.7

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0:32.8

meetrejoin.com. That's meet, rejoyn.com.

0:40.0

Say goodbye to the food police

0:41.6

and hello to peace.

0:43.5

Welcome to the Love Food podcast

0:45.3

hosted by award-winning dietitian

0:47.2

and food behavior expert, Julie Duffy Dillon.

0:50.3

This authentically engineered series

0:52.2

is in the form of a love letter

0:53.6

welcoming you to reconnect with food.

0:56.6

Now pour a cup of coffee or a margarita and let's begin.

1:09.6

Hi and welcome to episode 37 of the Love Food Podcast.

1:15.0

I am Julie Duffy Dillon, registered dietitian, and food peace promoter.

1:19.9

I'm so glad you're here.

1:21.4

Thank you for connecting today, and I hope this episode helps you to find a little bit more insight and a clearer path to your own

1:31.1

journey to food peace. And today's letter is from someone who feels like she's at odds with

1:38.4

herself. And if she can only just lose a little bit more weight, she would finally be at peace.

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