My entitled wife blames me for her trip to France going so poorly, claiming that I actively

tried to sabotage her trip despite the fact that I paid for all of it and was the only one that

planted out just so she could go in the first place. And now she wants to break up with me,

refusing to even talk to me in general until I realize all the wrong that I had done to her.

And at this point, I'm so exhausted and I don't know what to do.

So my wife has wanted to teach abroad since I've met her.

I'm a cautious person at fault, so much so that I told her I really didn't want her to go.

This spawned several arguments, with me calling stating that it's a stupid idea,

but only out of pure fear for her safety. Regardless of my fears, I realize I was being

inconsiderate, and we've since moved on from that. Fast forward to October, and we have a trip

to France scheduled in December for three weeks. She's teaching at a school in a small village

at an old chateau. She's taking our youngest for the entire time, and then her brother is going

out with our oldest for a week. I'm staying behind, because finance wise, I would need to work

a lot more to make sure we could afford this. During this time, we get into another argument,

because I apparently haven't helped her plan the trip, and she's struggling.

My rebuttal is I've been busy with work, and this hasn't been a priority,

as I'm the sole provider for the family. But that proved to definitely be the wrong answer.

I eventually came to my senses and take the reins on the trip planning.

The plans for this trip proceeded to change five times, over the next few weeks, up until December,

causing me to be on my phone quite a bit with airlines, hotels, and other travel vendors to make

sure it all lines up. It's pretty inconvenient, and I show flashes of anger because of this,

but I always lied and told her everything was fine. After all, I didn't want to make this

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