My entitled narcissistic mother has been actively making up rumors about my girlfriend,

claiming that she's controlling me and that she's manipulating me,

causing all this unnecessary drama and creating all these false rumors about me and my girlfriend.

But after dealing with this for years, I decide that enough is enough,

and I put my foot down and I tell her to stop for good.

And when I did that, she went absolutely ballistic and has actively sought to try and ruin my life ever since.

Here's what happened.

So to start off, just to let you know a little bit about my mother,

she always told me and my brother that love is not unconditional,

that it must be earned.

When we were kids, she barely let us hug or kiss her,

saying that disgusted her, and that is a false and hypocritical way to show love.

And that the correct way to show that we loved her was to respect her and to obey her.

She would smash the door and windows of our rooms on Saturday and Sunday at seven in the morning.

And she would do this because she was upset at us.

Because she expected us to already be awake and cleaning the house.

And school and grades, she always told us that excellence is the bare minimum you owe me.

So if we scored a top score, she would basically be like,

Oh, you want a reward? That's your obligation.

You don't deserve a reward for giving the bare minimum.

Anything below that would result in some kind of taunt,

or being called mediocre, or worst of all, getting punished.

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