My entitled mother ruined my bachelorette party, causing unnecessary drama amongst my friends,

as well as claiming that I betrayed my family, all because I wanted to spend time with my friends in Puerto Rico

for my bachelorette party and now I'm incredibly hurt and I seriously don't know what to do.

Here's what happened. So a few months back I had a bachelorette trip to Puerto Rico.

Two of my bridesmaids were able to go and my mother and sister came as well.

I asked my mom to be the maid of honor since I thought it would create a closer bond between us

getting ready for my wedding. My whole goal was to have everyone get along and just

have a good time, but I should have known that this was going to be a disaster. A couple of weeks

before my mother started bashing all of my bridesmaids and friends, she was

particularly focused on one that was actually going on the trip. I ended up

paying for my mom, sister, and my own flight just to try and lift the burden of my mother paying for

both herself and my sister. But the plan was that my mother was going to pay for

her and my sister's hotel. My friend reached out to everyone to try and plan something for me without me getting involved.

Now I would like to add that I planned the Bachelorette trip as the bride.

When my friend reached out to my mom and called her, she wanted to help as much as she can.

My friend is actually Puerto Rican, so she was going to be a huge help with this trip.

At the time, I did not know about this call.

My mother called me at 3 in the morning after having that call with my friend

to literally tell me she has not been doing her maid of honor duties because she has been observing

everyone and everything. She then said as the maid of honor, she should be planning the

bachelorette trip. I found this conversation odd, but I said, okay, whatever.

I mean, I was relieved that she finally stepped up to help me with the trip. My mom did say before the call ended to not tell my friend she talked to me about this,

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