My entitled mom is demanding to live with me and my boyfriend in our soon-to-be house,

and I honestly don't know what to do. My mom and dad wants us, meaning me and my boyfriend,

to buy their house because they are having a divorce. We were thrilled because we have been

searching for a house for a few years now. Sadly, they are ending their relationship on bad terms.

Now, my mom keeps pressuring me to let her live with us. My dad is just cool and tells us to think

wisely. First, some backstory. Me and my mom are from the Philippines and are now currently living

in the Netherlands. With my stepdad, who I call my dad. My mom has given me C-P-T-S-D,

and I am also bipolar. She has physically and emotionally hurt me for years. Her reasoning for this

is so that she can discipline me, which is honestly just cruel and unusual punishment.

The last few years she has been depressed and does literally nothing other than watch videos

online on her couch. My dad has to do everything. Cook food, walk the dogs, pretty much every

house store you can think of. All because my mom wouldn't live to finger for him or anyone else

in the house, including the dogs. After three years, my dad is tired and completely done with this

behavior. He tried to talk to her about this, but she would just ignore him. He even asked me and

my boyfriend for any kind of advice, and I told him that my mom wants to go back to the Philippines

because she is happier there. My dad is a very nice person, and he definitely deserves more than

her. My dad is a truck driver who works 65 hours a week. He is tired and not happy. My mom is

pressuring me that after we buy their house, that she must live with us for free, and that we should

kick my dad out because he isn't family. My boyfriend was not amused by this, as he knows that

she would treat us like slaves. What should I do? It sounds like your mom is really not a good person.

She clearly was very mean to you emotionally and physically as a child, and it sounds like she's

incredibly lazy and doesn't do anything to pull her weight. Like for three years, this guy was

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