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Am I the Jerk?

Entitled Husband DEMANDS Wife be a Stay at Home Mom

Am I the Jerk?

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Relationships, Society & Culture

4.83.2K Ratings

🗓️ 4 May 2022

⏱️ 20 minutes

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0:00.0

My husband asked me to be a stay-at-home mom for his daughter from a previous relationship

0:05.3

before we got married, at the time I said no. But now the years have passed, we are married,

0:10.8

and we're about to have our own baby. What I wanted changed. So when I want to talk to him about

0:15.6

now becoming a stepmother, my husband lost it on me. He is furious, screaming, yelling, saying that

0:25.5

it was disgusting that I was showing favoritism to our son over his daughter, and that it was

0:31.0

ridiculous that I changed my mind now, and that I am a rotten stepmother. All of this hurt me

0:38.4

so deeply, and I'm looking for answers where to go from here. So here's what happened.

0:43.9

Make sure to subscribe to the channel and hit the bell to turn on notifications. I'm a 28-year-old

0:48.8

woman, and my husband, who's 37 years old of two years, blew up at me when I asked if I could

0:55.6

be a working stay-at-home mom, and accused me of being a horrible stepparent to his daughter,

1:02.3

who's eight years old. I am crushed. Is he right? I'm a saleswoman and I do very well for myself.

1:08.1

My husband and I have been married for two years and together for five years. This is my first

1:13.1

marriage, and it's my husband's second marriage. He has an eight-year-old daughter from his previous

1:17.5

relationship and has always had full custody of her. Our dating life was tricky with him being

1:23.3

a full-time single dad and having to work long hours, but we made it work. I met his daughter when

1:27.8

she was four years old and we had been dating for a year. I liked her very much and have always

1:32.1

done my best to try and be the best stepmom me ever. She calls me mom, and I have done all of the

1:37.9

mom things for her. I've helped her get dressed and ready for school, done her hair, cooked her meals,

1:42.5

helped her with homework and soccer practice. I've taken her for ice cream dates,

1:46.7

tucked her into bed, read her stories, etc. I'm not perfect. I've made mistakes, but overall we've

1:51.6

been a very happy family. When my husband and I got engaged, he asked if I would like to be a

1:56.2

stay-at-home mom for Lizzy and any future children we had. At the time, I politely declined. I was

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