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For The Love With Jen Hatmaker Podcast

Enneagram Fours - Ian Cron on The Individualists

For The Love With Jen Hatmaker Podcast

Jen Hatmaker

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.66.3K Ratings

🗓️ 9 June 2020

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

Our Enneagram series continues with another type who rounds out the heart triad: the beautifully complex Type Fours (also known as The Romantics). To lead us on all things Type Four, we have an incredible returning guest: a Four himself, Ian Morgan Cron. Ian wears many hats—Enneagram expert, author of The Road Back to You, host of Typology Podcast, priest and psychotherapist, to name a few—and his Fourness is revealed in his beautiful, open posture toward humanity. He walks us through how Fours believe that they have an “unredeemable deficiency,” how they feel a little different and off-center, and have a vague dissatisfaction with themselves. Typically seen as the most complex of all the Enneagram numbers, Fours seek to be special in some way to fill this inner void, and the road to being a healthy Four is when they realize that “specialness” isn’t their sole path to being loved. Ian shares personally his experience that the superpower of a Four is emotional intuitiveness and empathy; Fours are equipped to come alongside people in their dark moments and walk through the suffering with them, and they tend to gravitate towards spaces in which they can uniquely contribute to conversation. Conversely, Fours in conflict tend to withdraw, and Ian shares how they can be lovingly drawn out. And don’t forget to stick around until the end to hear from composer Ryan O’Neal (AKA Sleeping At Last), who shares his process for crafting a music piece as uniquely complex as Type Fours.

Transcript

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0:00.0

I want to live wide awake in the world and in order for me to do that, I'm going to face

0:09.4

my shadow and I'm going to face my beauty.

0:13.6

Welcome to the For the Love Podcast with me, Jen Hatmaker.

0:17.0

Today, we'll deep dive into anyogram force with anyogram pioneer in Morgan Cron.

0:29.9

Everybody, welcome to the For the Love Podcast.

0:33.6

Gosh, we are having the greatest time in the anyogram series.

0:38.4

I'm just so endlessly fascinated with this work and all the ways that it can serve us

0:48.4

and our relationships and our marriages.

0:50.2

I mean, it's just I'm gobbling it up with a spoon.

0:54.2

Today, today, today, today.

0:57.0

We are going to turn our attention to the wonderful unicorns of the anyogram.

1:04.5

Of course, I'm talking about type force.

1:08.5

I love the force in my life.

1:10.6

I know that I say this about every number, but I mean it.

1:13.2

I find force to be one of the more wonderfully mysterious numbers of the integral.

1:18.2

I'm like, who are they?

1:19.2

What's going on in their brains?

1:20.2

What are they thinking and really more?

1:22.6

What are they feeling?

1:24.2

So get excited, folks, because I called in a reinforcement of the highest degree today

1:32.0

because, along with being an absolute master teacher of the anyogram, even a pioneer,

1:40.6

he is a four himself.

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