Enneagram 4&4 | Understanding Conflict Styles and Relational Dynamics

Enneagram & Coffee

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Self-improvement, Society & Culture, Relationships, Business, Education, Entrepreneurship

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🗓️ 25 July 2024

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Today we continue our series on relationship pairings with type four and type nine. I talk through conflict styles, triggers, things you may unconsciously fall into, and ways that you can influence one another. Thank you this week’s podcast sponsor: Spines. Take the first step toward becoming a published author with spines! Get an additional 5% off with coupon code: sarajane2024 at checkout! Call/Text Your Enneagram Questions into (828) 338 - 9127 Grab a copy of my books at www.thehonestenneagram.com & www.theenneagramletters.com Check out my youtube channel for more behind-the-scenes content www.youtube.com/sarajanecase Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hey, I'm dating coach Talia Coran, host of dating intentionally, where I help listeners date with confidence and learn to enjoy the process, whether you're new to the dating scene or you've been at it for a while.
0:12.0	Tune in every Tuesday and Friday for my no non-stop. new to the dating scene or you've been at it for a while.
0:12.8	Tune in every Tuesday and Friday for my no-nonsense advice
0:15.7	on using giving apps and navigating new relationships
0:18.5	without letting your anxiety take over.
0:20.8	You can find dating intentionally
0:22.2	wherever you get your podcast.
0:25.0	I am Sarah Jane Case and this is Eniagram and coffee.
0:32.0	Hello, friend. Hello friends welcome back to the podcast today we continue the type 4
0:38.9	section of our relationship pairing series actually we rounded out we end our type 4
0:44.9	section with type 4 and 4 today. So if you are looking for type 4 with 1 through 3
0:51.5	those did happen in the one, two, and three sections.
0:55.0	And each series, each section of this series will get shorter as we go forward,
1:02.0	because those types will already be covered and we end each
1:05.3	section with the same type pairing as we are today. Now whenever I answer these
1:12.0	questions I like to do it in three points, conflict styles, things you may be unconsciously doing and ways to positively influence each other.
1:20.0	So let's dive in.
1:22.0	So type 4 has a reactive response to triggers. So they react
1:27.1	strongly to conflict and they need responses from others. They have an
1:31.2	emotional reaction and a strong desire to know where they stand with others.
1:35.2	They look for their emotions to be mirrored.
1:38.5	They seek to be understood and seen.
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