I am Sarah Jane Case and this is Eniagram and coffee.

Hello friends, happy Thursday.

Welcome back to the podcast. Today we are continuing our series on

relationship pairings with type 2 and 4. If you are looking for type 2 and 1 or type 2 and 3

those have already happened in this past series and if you were

looking for type 2 and 2 that will be at the end of this section. Now whenever I

answer these pairing questions I'd like to do it in three points.

Conflict styles and triggers ways things you may be unconsciously doing and ways to influence one another.

So let's dive in.

For type two, you are the positive outlook group.

So you respond to triggers by denying problems, stress,

or conflict, responding to difficulty by putting a positive spin on negative experiences to cover painful emotions, emphasizing a positive self-image, emphasizing positive experiences, emphasizing

on the good qualities of others, and repressing negative thoughts and feelings. You also may be over-focused on the needs of others.

Triggers for type 2 are being taken for granted, not being heard, someone else being

treated in an abusive or unkind manner and being excluded.

Now type choosing conflict, you may ask yourself,

what appreciation do I feel like I deserve here that I am not receiving

and why is that important to me?

Now in type 4 we have a reactive response to a trigger conflict.

So they react strongly to conflict and need responses from others, emotional reaction and a strong desire to know where they stand with others.

They look for their emotions to be mirrored.

They seek to be understood and seen.

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