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When you have kids you're introducing conflict into your marriage and you don't

want to drag them into it but you also know that they are watching they know

something is going on. They can read the situation. This is an opportunity to show them how to handle an argument in a healthy way.

I'm John Fuller along with Greg Smalley and I think the hardest time Greg is when we're having

An argument in the car. Oh yeah, it's like I'd like to just there's no getting away No, I'd like to just there's no getting away.

No I'd like to kind of leave this.

I want to model this for the kids but it doesn't feel like it's good while we're doing 80.

What can happen?

You probably want to reduce your speed, first and foremost. Well, and reduce the emotions, as you were saying last time.

I mean, it's, it just...

I think everybody gets stressed out, and I think for younger kids their natural

tendency is to want to intervene and referee to bring you guys together.

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