ENFJ Dealing With A "Rude And Offensive" ESTJ | 10 Min Type Advice | S01:E11

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🗓️ 9 March 2022

⏱️ 13 minutes

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In this episode Joel and Antonia answer an ENFJ listener's question about dealing with her "rude" ESTJ brother.

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0:00.0	Welcome to 10 Minute Type Advice by Personality Hacker.
0:10.9	I'm Joel Mark Whit and I'm Antonia Dodge.
0:13.5	This show features questions from the Personality Hacker community that we answer at about 10
0:18.6	minutes.
0:19.6	We've been using personality types in our coaching for years and we'd love to answer
0:23.7	your questions about personal growth through the lens of type.
0:27.9	You can find out more about us at personalityhacker.com.
0:31.6	Okay, now let's hear today's question.
0:33.9	Hey guys, I'm Beck and I'm an ENFJ and my brother is an ESTJ and we don't get along.
0:41.6	I mean, I don't know if he knows that we don't get along but I definitely notice that we
0:45.6	don't get along.
0:46.6	I love my brother but I find him to be so rude and abrupt and uncaring about people's
0:54.3	feelings and where they're coming from.
0:56.2	He doesn't have time to see it from their perspective, it just is how it is.
1:01.8	And I guess what I want to know is how can I get the information out of him and deal with
1:08.4	him and hang out with him without being completely offended and frustrated with how he does his
1:17.2	thing?
1:18.2	Thanks guys.
1:19.2	Thanks for the question.
1:20.9	So as an ENFJ, it's really a question.
1:24.2	How do I relate to the ESTJ in my life that I perceive to be rude and crude and not
1:30.3	give anybody space and just bulldoze over everybody in the world?
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