Well, it's so easy to get on social media and to start making comparisons.

I see that mom doing the perfect birthday party or see that dad doing the perfect dad thing with his

kids and that's all well and good but that's what we post is the perfect right

I'm John Fuller along with Dr Danny where to who heads up the focus on the

family parenting department.

And Danny, there's an emptiness that seems to saturate a lot of what happens in social media

because I start looking thinking, oh, I don't measure up. What's with that? Yeah, it's it's amped up the

comparison reality that we do as parents. It's not a new thing that we compare. I'm sure

my parents did and and my grandparents, my great-grandparents

compared themselves to the other parents at church or other places but now we compare

ourselves to the entire world in parenting.

And generally, the ones that are staging at the best

and creating the most engaging type of content

are the ones that people follow and like and look at.

And most parents feel inadequate compared to that and go, man, I am really failing my kids and

I feel really bad because I'm not giving them experiences like these families,

you know, going on high ropes courses almost every Saturday or going kayaking and

squirrel suit flying or whatever it is and then they're they're

posting these amazing cookouts and baking time together and it looks beautiful

and happy and I'll say every home has difficulty and messiness

and on social media our brain thinks my home is the only one and I'm failing. And what I've noticed

with parents is they're stressed almost to the point of burnout, they're tired,

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