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Negotiate Anything

End the People-Pleasing Cycle: 3 Tips That Actually Work

Negotiate Anything

American Negotiation Institute

Education, Careers, Business

4.8659 Ratings

🗓️ 10 August 2025

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

Are you tired of saying “yes” when you really want to say “no”? In this episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian sits down with life coach and hypnotherapist Amy Green Smith to unpack the hidden costs of people-pleasing—and how to finally break free. Together, they explore the surprising ways emotional intelligence, self-advocacy, and societal expectations shape your ability to negotiate—whether in the office, at home, or in everyday life. Amy reveals the evolutionary roots of people-pleasing, when it can actually help you, and when it slowly erodes your self-worth. By the end, you’ll understand exactly how your self-perception impacts your influence, your relationships, and your overall life satisfaction—and what to do about it. Contact ANI ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠negotiateanything.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! Connect with Amy ⁠https://amygreensmith.com/⁠ ⁠Check out Amy's 1 on 1 Worthy Program: https://amygreensmith.com/worthy/⁠ ⁠Follow Amy on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heyamygreensmith⁠ ⁠The Bold-Faced Truth Podcast

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0:00.0

Hey, I'm Kwame Christian and you are about to step into the world of Negotiate Anything,

0:06.2

the number one negotiation podcast in the world where we teach you how to make difficult conversations easier while getting more of what you want in the process.

0:14.7

Each episode is packed with practical tips and strategies from the experts.

0:19.5

We delve into negotiation, conflict resolution,

0:22.7

and leadership skills that are crucial in both business and in life. Whether you're closing a deal,

0:28.3

managing a team, or navigating personal relationships, negotiate anything provides you with the tools

0:33.9

you need to succeed. Our conversations are real, relatable, and most importantly, rooted

0:39.8

in practicality. So if you're ready to transform your conversations and elevate your negotiation skills,

0:46.2

join me on Negotiate Anything. Subscribe and listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you love to

0:52.7

listen. Let's make every conversation a winning negotiation.

0:58.9

Amy, thanks for joining us today. Hi, Kwame. I'm excited to hang out. Yes, likewise, my friend. So how

1:04.9

would you get started by telling us a little bit about yourself and what you do? Yeah, so I work as a life

1:09.6

coach and hypnotherapist. I work in women's

1:12.3

leadership, specifically in the area of difficult conversations, which I know you are quite

1:18.6

familiar with. I tend to discuss that more in an interpersonal framework and how that is related

1:25.3

to certain unwanted behaviors, like obsession around what other people

1:31.2

think, constant ruminations, self-doubt, perfectionism, people-pleasing. Those are usually

1:37.4

kind of the places it hurts. But when we excavate behind that, almost always, the root cause or the root issue is around a sense of self-worth and believing that your voice actually matters or that your desires deserve to come to fruition.

1:55.8

So a lot of the stuff around, how do I ask for a divorce with grace and kindness or how do I ask an adult

2:03.4

child to move out of the house with compassion? How do, in my instance, how do I tell my family that I

2:09.5

don't subscribe to the faith traditions I was raised in? So a lot of the stuff that culturally,

2:15.4

our society kind of says, oh, you can't do that. You can't say that.

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