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Order of Man

End Self-Sabotage | GARY JOHN BISHOP

Order of Man

Ryan Michler

Society & Culture, Business

4.89.1K Ratings

🗓️ 7 May 2019

⏱️ 64 minutes

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Summary

I think it's safe to assume all of us have ambitions for the future. You wouldn't be listening to this podcast if that wasn't the case. Unfortunately, we have a tendency of getting in our own way and sabotaging ourselves in the pursuit of those ambitions.

Today, I am joined by New York Times Bestselling Author and repeat guest, Gary John Bishop, to talk about how hardwired into us the self-sabotage really is, what the three greatest saboteurs are, how to balance certainty and aspirations, the myth of truth, and how to finally end self-sabotage.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

  • The misconception of "truth"
  • Living life with intent
  • Personal expansion
  • Awareness versus knowledge
  • Making a real change in your life
  • How to become more aware
  • Finding new paradigms in life
  • Stepping back into self-sabotage
  • Focusing on the right things
  • Being a victim of life
  • The chaotic world
  • Lack of fulfillment
  • Wanting certainty but desiring new
  • Questioning everything you know
  • Going beyond your own constraints

GARY JOHN BISHOP

Today, I am joined by New York Times Best Selling Author, Gary John Bishop for our second discussion regarding his second book, Stop Doing That Sh*t.

Gary is a personal development expert and has received a lot of attention over the past several years for his unique approach to self-help and his ability to cut to the heart of matters without a lot of B.S.

His first book, UnFu*k Yourself, has sold nearly 1,000,000 copies and is a testament to the fact that people are tired of the motivational, rah-rah, self-help space that has left people informed but not any further down the path to their objectives.

Sit back, take notes, and enjoy this powerful conversation with Gary John Bishop.

IRON COUNCIL

Along the lines of self-help, I think many of us have seen where it falls short and how so many men who have a desire to improve themselves never really do.

That's why, when I founded the Order of Man, it was always my intention to bridge the gap between what we know and what we do. And, that is where our exclusive brotherhood of men comes into play.

It's really not enough to know you want to improve and then go at it alone. You need two things: a framework and a network. A framework to tap into a proven strategy that will help you become an optimized man and a network of men who are on the same path (and further down it) to assist along the way.

You'll find both inside the Iron Council and learn how valuable a framework and network can really be. To learn more, head to www.orderofman.com/ironcouncil.

Support Order of Man by picking up some new merchandise in our store.

Show notes: https://www.orderofman.com/216

 

Transcript

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0:00.0

Guys, I think it's safe to assume that most of us have ambitions for the future.

0:03.8

If not all of us, I don't think you'd be listening to this podcast if that wasn't the case.

0:08.0

But unfortunately, a lot of us have a tendency of getting in our own way and sabotaging ourselves in the pursuit of the ambitions that we have.

0:16.6

Today, I'm joined by New York Times bestselling author and repeat guest Gary John Bishop to talk about how hardwired into us, the self sabotage really is.

0:25.9

What the three greatest saboteurs are, how to balance the idea of certainty in our lives and aspirations, the myth of quote unquote truth, and how to finally end self sabotage.

0:55.9

It's who you are. This is who you will become. At the end of the day, and after all is said and done, you can call yourself a man.

1:25.9

But reclaiming and restoring masculinity to a place when we were strong and bold and proficient and capable.

1:33.5

And there are certainly men who exhibit those characteristics and those traits.

1:37.3

But I see in society today a downward trend, a downward spiral into mediocrity, complacency, softness, weakness, and I think it's a detriment to society.

1:49.8

If not society, it's certainly a detriment to ourselves and our own ambitions and a detriment to those we have a responsibility for.

1:56.3

That's our family, our employees, our employers, our community members, neighbors, friends, et cetera, et cetera.

2:02.4

So it's my job to give you the tools and the guidance and the direction and the resources and specifically within the context of this podcast, the conversations that each and every one of us need to step up more fully in our lives.

2:14.8

We've had conversations with warriors, jocke, a willing, Tim Kennedy, Dakota Meyer.

2:20.6

We've had conversations with entrepreneurs like Grant Cardone and Andy for Silla.

2:24.6

We've had New York Times bestselling authors on scholars, any man out there who has a story to share who has some ideas about what's worked and what hasn't.

2:34.6

And has been relatively successful in their life.

2:36.9

It's my job to get these men on the podcast so we can have these incredibly powerful conversations that help all of us step into masculinity and manhood in a way that serves ourselves answers those that again, we have an obligation and responsibility for.

2:52.2

So I've got a great one lined up for you today with a repeat guest.

2:55.4

I'll get to that here in just a quick minute.

2:57.4

I do want to mention very, very quickly the idea of supplements.

3:01.3

I've talked about this quite a bit in the past, specifically over the past, I don't know, I'd say five, six months.

3:08.1

But before that, I wasn't using very many supplements, but I've started using over that time, five or six months, origin supplements.

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