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Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson

End Self-Punishment: Curiosity, Joy, and Real Growth with Joe Hudson

Being Well with Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson

Being Well

Health & Fitness, Education, Self-improvement, Mental Health

4.82.4K Ratings

🗓️ 27 October 2025

⏱️ 75 minutes

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Summary

Forrest is joined by one of the world’s top executive coaches, Joe Hudson, for a conversation focused on how we can reduce self-punishment and live more fulfilling lives by welcoming our emotions and loosening identification with the critical mind. They discuss Joe’s “The Golden Algorithm” - our tendency to recreate the emotions we try to avoid - and explore the three pillars of emotional fluidity, cognitive clarity, and nervous system awareness. Joe emphasizes how good change usually comes from reconnecting with who we already are, and welcoming fear, pleasure, and imperfection along the way. Really enjoyed this one, I hope you do too! About our Guest: Joe Hudson is the founder of the Art of Accomplishment, and is one of the most sought-after teachers among the world’s top leaders at OpenAI, Alphabet, Apple, and more. He coaches a small group of executives by invitation only, and has collaborated with teachers like Esther Perel, Bessel van der Kolk, Patty Wipfler, and Tiago Forte. Key Topics: 1:14: The Three Pillars: Emotion, Cognition, Nervous System 8:29: Self-improvement as an act of authenticity 15:44: Deconstructing our thoughts 23:19: The golden algorithm, repression, and why we recreate our pain 31:31: Working with the nervous system 34:11: Shame 43:14: Emotions as windows into wants and needs 49:45: Perfectionism 55:27: Enjoying life 1:08:07: Recap Learn more about Joe's work:  Complimentary transformation guide: https://www.artofaccomplishment.com/  Art of Accomplishment YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@ArtofAccomplishment Support the Podcast: We're on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link. Sponsors If you have ADHD, or you love someone who does, I’d recommend checking out the podcast ADHD aha! Level up your bedding with Quince. Go to Quince.com/BEINGWELL for free shipping on your order and three hundred and sixty-five -day returns. Feel good...and mean it when you say it! Get Headspace FREE for 60 days. Go to Headspace.com/BEINGWELL60 Listen now to the Life Kit podcast from NPR. Go to Zocdoc.com/BEING to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/beingwell. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hello and welcome to being well. I'm Forrest Hanson.

0:10.0

If you're new to the show, thanks for joining us today. And if you've listened before, welcome back.

0:15.0

If I had to put the focus of this show into one word, it's probably change. And to expand a bit from there, particularly changing our level

0:22.0

of emotional or psychological functioning, which then helps us change so much about our lives.

0:27.6

That order is important. Internal change tends to fuel external change. And while accumulating

0:32.8

more knowledge matters what often tips the scales for people is the emotional side of the equation.

0:38.1

We try to outthink our stress, perfectionism, our resentment, but what actually moves things

0:43.1

is our relationship to those feelings, whether we can welcome them, understand what they're

0:47.0

pointing to, and then act based on that understanding. And I'm joined by somebody today whose work

0:52.0

appealed to me in part because I thought it was so consistent with everything that I just said. My guest today is Joe Hudson, an executive coach and teacher who's worked with some of the world's top leaders at a variety of Fortune 50 companies. So, Joe, thanks for joining me today. How are you doing? Pleasure to be here. Yeah, great. It was great. It was really nice to hear that introduction. Yeah, I really appreciate that. Do you think that's kind of a fair characterization of the work you do with people?

1:14.4

Yeah. Yeah, great. It was great. It was really nice to hear that introduction. Yeah, I really appreciate that. Do you think that's kind of a fair characterization of the work you do with people?

1:14.4

Yeah, the way I would put it is a little bit different, but it generally jives.

1:19.6

What I would say is that I think that there's three things that need to be addressed if you're going to have transformation. And one is the brain, one is the

1:29.0

emotional, and one is the nervous system. And they're kind of different. They're kind of not, but it's

1:34.9

very useful to make them different. And in our society, what I would say is the most neglected one

1:39.7

is typically emotion. So you'll usually get the most bang out of your buck and the emotional

1:43.3

and how you relate to your emotions. And if you welcome your emotions, that is where you're going to probably

1:47.6

get the most lift off the quickest for most people. But there are some occasions where the emotion

1:53.9

system is doing well and you've got to address the brain or the nervous system. Totally. Yeah. And I think

1:59.5

that's really fair as well.

2:05.0

I'm wondering, when people come to work with you, maybe based on already what we're starting to talk about here a little bit today, what do they tend to say that the problem

2:08.3

is for them? And then after working with them, what do you observe the problem is for them?

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