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The universe has good news for the lost, lonely, and heart sick. The sugars are here, speaking

straight into your ears. I'm Steve Alman. I'm Cheryl Strait. This is Dear Sugars.

Oh dear song, won't you please? Yeah, some little sweet days with me. I check my bed

every day. Oh, and this sugar, you see in my way.

Hi Steve. Hi Cheryl. So we're going to talk about sex today.

Hmm, sort of. Kind of non-sex sex. Yes. I'm sad to report. But this is something really

I think a lot of couples especially in long term relationships face and certainly in our inbox.

We have a lot of people writing to us, not saying, you know, oh, one sex struggle or another,

but saying our struggle is that we're not having sex. Sometimes for years on end, sometimes

just, you know, barely over the course of many months. And a lot of people are suffering

from this predicament. They love their partner. They feel sometimes connected in all kinds

of ways, emotional, psychological, great friends, great parents together. Right. And they're

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