All right, it is Wednesday again in another episode.

Wednesday of Kate and I break it down.

Kate and Ty break it down episode, whatever.

I don't even know.

I don't even know what episode it is.

But it's funny because today, this episode lands on our 10-year anniversary. 10-year wedding anniversary. Yeah, 10-year married. 10 years married. We've been together 18 years. Don't get it twisted. I know, because when I was telling Nova that today, I'm like, yeah, today is, you know, our 10-year anniversary. She's like, what? I thought it was longer than that. I'm like, it is.

But we've been married 10 years together for longer. But I feel like little kids always do that. Oh, you got together when you got married. Like you're, no, Novo was like, oh, I thought it was longer than that. But we have been married 10 years. Yeah. I always saw her it's the age that she is. Right. Like you were nine months old

We got married

Yeah, we'll never be able to forget it

She's the same age

That we are when we got married

Okay, how do you feel

A decade end of marriage? it's the age that she is right like you were nine months old we got married yeah we'll never be able to forget it she's the same age that we are when we got married okay how do you feel a decade into marriage what what what what what you're thinking i feel it's fine really okay yeah because everyone always says like you know seven year itch and you know or whatever five years you have these problems or whatever like i'm just like okay i never got the seven year i never

got the seven year inch we're a decade in yeah how do you feel about it i feel great i i honestly

feel sometimes i'm like like like uh almost like too good to be true in a way like because i you just

hear so many horror stores well i mean our first year of marriage was hell it was hard you know what's

weird is that even though the first year of marriage was hard, we already, like, technically, we were already together for so long before that. Yeah. But the first year of marriage was crazy. It was, yeah. But I feel like the first year of marriage for most people, they're dating for a few years before that. We were dating a long-ass time. No, we were. Before our first year of marriage. You long time you know what I'm saying so yeah um but yeah first year of marriage was was interesting it was rough

it was very rough yeah and we had rough I mean I think every marriage has its rough patches

throughout the years you know what I mean how would you like categorize our rough patches

like like if you could break it down like okay this was the worst that like... I think it was just a lot of the mental health stuff that sucked. Yeah. You know what I mean? Me trying to figure out what it is. How do I deal with it? All the things. You feeling like you're having to be like a caretaker or to like try to fix it or, you know, whatever, like caregiving, whatever. What is that called?

Character. or to like try to fix it or you know whatever like caregiving whatever what is that called caretaking fatigue or something yeah yeah yeah and then you wanted to take a break and then you

be separated because of mental health shit and the break was so stupid the break wasn't even

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