Encore: How To Succeed When Everyone's Mad at You
How To! with Mike Pesca
Peach Fish Projects
4.3 • 2K Ratings
🗓️ 18 January 2022
⏱️ 32 minutes
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Summary
Have you ever had to make an impossible decision? One that doesn't have an obvious "right" answer. One that someone will inevitably hate. John knows this feeling all too well. He's the superintendent for a mid-size school district in California. To say the last school year was difficult is a major understatement… John tried to ensure the safety of his students, teachers, and faculty while balancing the reality of students struggling in their virtual classes. Throughout the school year, John's relationship with his teachers and the teachers union deteriorated. Now, classes are back in session and he's hoping to find common ground as soon as possible. On this episode of How To!, we bring on Gary Friedman, a world-renowned conflict mediator. He has some tips on how all of us can mend a fraught relationship before it's too late.
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This episode originally ran on August 31, 2021.
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| 0:30.8 | So the other day at a staff meeting, our producer Rosie mentioned something she had just heard |
| 0:35.1 | on NPR that really hit us all hard. It was a chat |
| 0:38.3 | between host Rachel Martin and reporter Corey Turner about school superintendents, all of whom are |
| 0:44.2 | trying to figure out how to keep classrooms open amid the latest COVID surge. And no matter what they do, |
| 0:51.1 | they just can't win. You know, I was talking to Dan Dominic yesterday. |
| 0:56.0 | He talks to superintendents all the time as head of the National School Superintendent's |
| 1:00.0 | Association. |
| 1:00.9 | And he told me he's heard something from a few superintendents personally that he's never |
| 1:05.1 | heard before. |
| 1:06.0 | And I should say, this might be a little hard to hear. |
| 1:09.0 | Superintendent's calling me, telling me that they're ready to commit suicide. |
| 1:12.2 | That I've never, ever seen a period of time where I've had to deal with that. |
| 1:17.4 | Oh, my gosh, Corey. |
| 1:19.0 | I mean, that's just amazing, awful to hear that school leaders would feel this way? |
| 1:27.1 | Yeah, I mean, it's a pressure cooker right now, this debate around safe schooling. Yeah. to hear that school leaders would feel this way? |
| 1:31.3 | Yeah, I mean, it's a pressure cooker right now, this debate around safe schooling. |
| 1:37.0 | And school leaders and educators feel like whatever they do, they're going to make somebody angry. |
| 1:42.5 | And that is a huge difference between now and say where we started this thing almost two years ago. |
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