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🗓️ 23 December 2022
⏱️ 6 minutes
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Today’s poem is Don't Say Love Just Signal by Tyree Daye. This episode was originally released on March 9, 2022.
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0:00.0 | I'm Adely Mone and this is the slowdown. |
0:19.0 | I don't know about you, but for me, the last two years have put a strain on language. |
0:25.5 | It's not because language hasn't helped or soothed or distressed or pummeled us. |
0:32.2 | It's that I'm used to being able to supplement language with physical presence. |
0:39.0 | For me, and maybe for many of us, the way we say I love you is just by showing up, |
0:46.4 | by being there, sometimes quietly, wordlessly, but there, in person, nonetheless. |
0:56.0 | Of course, since our travel has been restricted and safety concerns abound, we haven't always |
1:03.0 | been able to show up. Through the FaceTime screen, I say to my grandmother, I love you. |
1:09.8 | I love you, and she says it back. But I can't help but wish I was in her little apartment, |
1:16.5 | handing her flowers and person, sharing our traditional special occasion in and out burger together. |
1:24.0 | Words through a screen are useful, yes. But they remain only that. Words through a screen. |
1:33.4 | The other day, I had a craving to see my loved ones so badly, it physically hurt. |
1:40.9 | Now, we are slowly learning to enter the world again, safely, so that we can stand side-by-side |
1:50.0 | and stare at the birds or see a smile come over someone's face when they don't think you're looking. |
1:56.8 | To touch someone, to hold their hand, to sit in silence over a puzzle or a card game, |
2:04.2 | there's worth in that. Here I am, a poet who believes in the power of language, and yet here I |
2:12.0 | am also saying, I believe deeply in the power of touch or togetherness of moving beyond the page |
2:21.4 | and into the sunlight together. Today's breathtaking poem speaks to the importance of saying, |
2:30.8 | I love you, without saying the words, how love is made of those little moments of togetherness |
2:38.9 | that bind us indelibly to each other. Don't say love, adjust signal, by Tyree Day. |
2:48.9 | No one said hawk, we just looked at the sky in the middle of a conversation. No one said when the |
2:58.2 | melons were ripe, they were thumped and listened to, for note we liked, a note like cane. No one |
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