Emotional Eating & The Mother-Daughter Connection – In Session with Marc David
The Psychology of Eating Podcast
Marc David
4.7 • 586 Ratings
🗓️ 3 April 2024
⏱️ 41 minutes
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Summary
Managing emotions with food, otherwise known as emotional eating, is something that humans have been doing for millenia. And the reason is simple: when we eat, we reliably feel better – no matter how fleeting those "feel-good" feelings may be.
While many people intuitively understand that emotions play a key role in our eating habits, it can often be a lot harder to understand the emotions themselves.
The truth is, our inner emotional world is fantastically complex, and influences our relationship with food in so many diverse and fascinating ways.
Which brings us to guest coaching client Beverley, 70, whose deepest desire is to understand the "dark places" inside herself that drive her to food – and to finally bring healing to the challenging emotions she's been feeling for over 50 years.
As Beverley shares with Marc David, she's never really been able to understand her negative feelings, where they came from, or why she has them.
Beverley reflects that she's had an "amazing life," with so many blessings. She's developed a fulfilling career as a theater director, helping young people develop their skills and confidence as an actor. She raised four incredible children of her own, and was, herself, born to a remarkable mother who always inspired and supported her.
And it's this latter feature of Beverley's life – her special bond with her mother – that is especially interesting.
As Marc explores with Beverley, her love for her mother runs so deep, and a very real part of her – her Child Archetype, doesn't seem to want to let go. Even though Beverley's mom has long since passed away, a part of Beverley still wants to be her mother's daughter.
Her uncanny way of staying connected with her mom is by continuing to engage in a behavior – emotional eating – that she knows her mom would have always encouraged and supported her to not judge herself for. By turning to food and being childlike when it comes to soothing her emotions with eating, Beverley has found a way to symbolically stay connected to her mother.
As Marc reflects, sometimes our "dark places" aren't actually what they seem. They aren't actually dark, or sinister, or even flawed.
They're just young parts of ourselves that hold onto a pattern out of fear of letting go of something – or someone – we love.
So be sure to tune into this powerful, wise, and heartfelt session that highlights the mother-daughter connection when it comes to food, and how we can continue to learn, grow and transform at any age in life.
Episode highlights:
✅ Why "going dark" with food isn't always what it seems.
✅ Key transformational tools to bring consciousness to your own unique relationship with food.
✅ Why overcoming emotional eating often requires us to "graduate" from our parents house.
✅ Learning to see yourself as equal to your parents – and why that matters when it comes to food.
✅ How to forgive yourself around food and emotional eating.
✅ And much more!
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Psychology of Eating Podcast, where food and body challenges are the doorway into a happier, healthier life. |
| 0:11.3 | Now, here's your host, Eating Psychology Expert and founder of the Institute for the Psychology of Eating, Mark David. |
| 0:26.4 | Thank you. Institute for the Psychology of Eating, Mark David. Welcome, everybody. I'm Mark David, founder of the Institute for the Psychology of Eating. |
| 0:31.0 | We're in the Psychology of Eating podcast. I'm with Beverly today. Welcome, Beverly. |
| 0:38.6 | Glad you're here. Glad you're here. I'm glad you're here. I'm glad we're doing this. And for people listening in who are new to the podcast, Beverly and I are meeting for the first time. |
| 0:48.8 | And this is a client session and we're going to see if we can make some good things happen. So Beverly, if you could wave your magic wand and get whatever you wanted with food and |
| 1:00.7 | body, what would that be for you? |
| 1:04.2 | It would be when I'm in my darkest moments that I don't use food as a as a putter offer of what I must face and that I am able to go directly to those hard places because I put them off by stuffing and then I feel terrible. |
| 1:31.7 | And then I make that the problem rather than the real thing that I eventually do get to. |
| 1:39.6 | Wow. So you already have a lot of insight. You know what you're doing. |
| 1:43.5 | I do. I've been working very hard on this most of my adult life, and I just turned 70, so a good 50 years. |
| 1:52.0 | And the last 20 years, I've really been getting deep in there, but there's still one little tiny, little deep, dark thing that I'm not |
| 2:03.9 | quite sure what that is. Well, good for you for being at the young age of 70 and still, still |
| 2:13.8 | working on yourself and still doing your best to be your best self. That's just, |
| 2:19.1 | that's just so admirable. And yeah, I just have a lot of respect for that. So it's a good |
| 2:25.3 | role model for all of us. So it's been a long time for, you know, it sounds like it's been a |
| 2:33.6 | lifetime, really, that you've been |
| 2:36.2 | kind of dealing with turning to food to help with your emotions and what does that look like |
| 2:45.6 | these days for you when you're turning to food because there's experiences or situations that it's hard to handle, |
| 2:53.6 | like, how does it look for you? |
| 2:55.6 | Give me the details. |
| 2:57.6 | You mean like what do I do? |
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