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The Psychology of Eating Podcast

Emotional Eating in Uncertain Times: It's Time to Forgive & Let Go – In Session with Marc David

The Psychology of Eating Podcast

Marc David

Nutrition, Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.7586 Ratings

🗓️ 15 November 2023

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

Emotional eating always has a psychological or biological reason for showing up in our life. It never just "happens" … it's almost always an unconscious psychological strategy to regulate difficult emotions. 

That's the case for guest coaching client, Katy, who's going through a period of massive change – and is struggling to manage her feelings about it all. As a newly-turned 30-year old, Katy is figuring out what's important to her in life, what sort of career she wants to pursue, and how she wants to earn money. She's hoping to find a life partner, and would one day like to become a mother. 

And all this great change is bringing up major uncertainty, as well as feelings of anxiety, fear, and self-doubt. 

Amidst all of this, Katy has been experiencing on-off cycles of emotional eating, overeating, and body judgment. She wishes her food habits didn't feel like such a roller coaster ride, and that she could just feel consistently joyful and positive about her relationship with food and her body.

But as Marc David explores with Katy, it can be pretty difficult to maintain a consistently positive and joyful relationship with food when the rest of our life is in a state of change and upheaval. 

The truth is that our relationship with food is a reflection of the rest of our life. If we find ourselves in an uncertain time of life, it's natural to feel uncertain and inconsistent with food. 

Through self-awareness and self-kindness, we can begin to see food as the powerful and effective emotional regulator that it is – and stop making ourselves wrong for turning to it sometimes when we aren't feeling so good about life. 

As Katy looks to the bigger context of her life, she realizes that her love-hate cycles with food and body, and in particular, with emotional eating, are simply reflecting the cycles of change she's experiencing in her inner and outer worlds. And with this new awareness, she can bring some much-needed forgiveness and self-compassion to herself – which ironically, can begin to free herself from the very unwanted eating patterns that are weighing her down. 

Episode highlights:

✅ Why seeking to be in a constant positive state with food can keep us trapped in our eating patterns. 

✅ How to find forgiveness and self-acceptance in your relationship with food – and why times of change call for it more than other times of life.

✅ How to know whether fasting or cleansing is right for your body, or when it might exacerbate yo-yo dieting tendencies.

✅ How to take baby steps with mindful eating.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Psychology of Eating Podcast, where food and body challenges are the doorway into a happier, healthier life.

0:11.3

Now, here's your host, Eating Psychology Expert and founder of the Institute for the Psychology of Eating, Mark David.

0:28.2

Thank you. Institute for the Psychology of Eating, Mark David. Welcome everybody. I'm Mark David, founder of the Institute for the Psychology of Eating. We're in the Psychology of Eating podcast.

0:33.6

I'm with Katie today. Welcome, Katie. Hello. Hi, Mark. Thank you.

0:38.6

Thank you for being here. Just a quick word for anybody listening in who's new to the podcast.

0:44.4

Katie and I are meeting for the first time and the idea is to see if we can have a good time, a productive time together and have a session.

0:52.5

So Katie, if you could wave your magic wand and have whatever

0:56.4

you wanted with food and body, what would that be for you? Nice. Thank you for the question.

1:04.5

I think it's a question that feels hard for me to answer without a little bit of context.

1:09.0

Sure. Yeah. So the context, I think being that I will go

1:14.2

through periods, like phases or cycles, I noticed these cycles of going through periods of like

1:20.4

a ton of positive energy around food and body and exercise and self-love.

1:34.7

And then those periods, yeah, where I feel really in touch with like my hunger signals and sort of just calling like joy into my life in general.

1:39.2

And then there's often a time that I hit sort of a wall in the last two years especially.

1:44.5

Like I've I've hit sort of a point where I've made decisions around work that have

1:49.9

made me feel a lot more like stifled in my life and a bit more stuck.

1:54.6

And I turn towards I turn towards just habits that aren't as great for my health and great for food and body.

2:04.6

And I think it has a little bit of an energy of like, I give up. Like I can't, I don't want to try

2:09.9

anymore. I can't. I feel stuck. And those habits like include like overeating or eating while

2:16.9

driving and, um, and those habits include like overeating or eating while driving.

2:25.7

And those habits like eventually lead me to my appearance changing somewhat and then my self-confidence changing.

2:26.9

And then, you know, I tend to hit a wave of like calling back that good energy in.

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