Emotion Regulation: Top 10 Neuroscience-Backed Tools | Ethan Kross & Emma Seppälä
10% Happier with Dan Harris
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4.6 • 12.9K Ratings
🗓️ 18 May 2026
⏱️ 65 minutes
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Summary
Manage anxiety, rewire your inner critic, and never worry alone.
Emma Seppälä, PhD is a psychologist and research scientist from Yale, and the author of two books, The Happiness Track and Sovereign.
Ethan Kross, PhD is a professor at the University of Michigan, where he leads the Institute for Mental Fitness. He is the author of two books, Chatter and Shift.
In this episode we talk about:
- What emotions actually are, and why even anxiety and anger serve a purpose
- Why self-criticism backfires, and what the research shows about self-compassion instead
- How chronic suppression makes your emotions stronger, not weaker
- Regulation tools you can use in the moment to shift emotional states
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| 0:00.0 | It's the 10% happier podcast. I'm Dan Harris. |
| 0:18.0 | Hey, gang, here's the deal. We all experience emotions all day long. Often those emotions are powerful, |
| 0:25.3 | negative, and very, very uncomfortable, and they can provoke us to do things that degrade our |
| 0:30.5 | relationships and our happiness. So that is the bad news. The good news is that there are |
| 0:36.3 | evidence-based strategies for managing and regulating |
| 0:40.0 | your emotions. So today we've got two maestroes who are going to talk us through the top 10 |
| 0:45.3 | neuroscience-backed ways to regulate your emotions. We discussed the surprising upside of anxiety and |
| 0:52.6 | anger. We talk about how to rewire your inner critic, |
| 0:55.6 | why suppressing emotions can backfire, but why avoidance actually sometimes makes sense, |
| 1:01.7 | and why you should never worry alone. This episode is part of our ongoing 10th anniversary |
| 1:07.5 | series. I can't believe the show has been going on for more than 10 years now. |
| 1:15.6 | So as part of this 10th anniversary, we're bringing back many of our favorite guests, |
| 1:21.2 | pairing them up and creating these top 10 lists on subjects we know you care about. |
| 1:27.3 | My guests today are Dr. Emma Sepula, who's a psychologist and research scientist from Yale. She's written two books, |
| 1:29.0 | The Happiness Track and Sovereign. And she's paired up with Dr. Ethan Cross from the University |
| 1:34.6 | of Michigan, where he leads the newly minted Institute for Mental Fitness. Ethan has also |
| 1:40.6 | written two books, chatter and shift. Real quick, you know who else had thoughts on how to |
| 1:46.8 | regulate your emotions and train your mind? A guy named the Buddha. As you may know, the Buddha |
| 1:51.6 | came up with a kind of cookbook to help you lead a happy life. It's called the Eightfold Path. |
| 1:56.9 | And this summer, over on my newish meditation app, which is called 10% with Dan Harris, |
| 2:03.1 | the great meditation teacher Sharon Salzberg will be leading an eight-part series on the |
| 2:08.0 | eight-fold path every Sunday, starting on July 12th. |
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