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10% Happier with Dan Harris

Emotion Regulation: Top 10 Neuroscience-Backed Tools | Ethan Kross & Emma Seppälä

10% Happier with Dan Harris

10% Media, LLC

Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.612.9K Ratings

🗓️ 18 May 2026

⏱️ 65 minutes

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Summary

Manage anxiety, rewire your inner critic, and never worry alone.

Emma Seppälä, PhD is a psychologist and research scientist from Yale, and the author of two books, The Happiness Track and Sovereign.  

Ethan Kross, PhD is a professor at the University of Michigan, where he leads the Institute for Mental Fitness. He is the author of two books, Chatter and Shift

In this episode we talk about:

  • What emotions actually are, and why even anxiety and anger serve a purpose
  • Why self-criticism backfires, and what the research shows about self-compassion instead
  • How chronic suppression makes your emotions stronger, not weaker
  • Regulation tools you can use in the moment to shift emotional states

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Transcript

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0:00.0

It's the 10% happier podcast. I'm Dan Harris.

0:18.0

Hey, gang, here's the deal. We all experience emotions all day long. Often those emotions are powerful,

0:25.3

negative, and very, very uncomfortable, and they can provoke us to do things that degrade our

0:30.5

relationships and our happiness. So that is the bad news. The good news is that there are

0:36.3

evidence-based strategies for managing and regulating

0:40.0

your emotions. So today we've got two maestroes who are going to talk us through the top 10

0:45.3

neuroscience-backed ways to regulate your emotions. We discussed the surprising upside of anxiety and

0:52.6

anger. We talk about how to rewire your inner critic,

0:55.6

why suppressing emotions can backfire, but why avoidance actually sometimes makes sense,

1:01.7

and why you should never worry alone. This episode is part of our ongoing 10th anniversary

1:07.5

series. I can't believe the show has been going on for more than 10 years now.

1:15.6

So as part of this 10th anniversary, we're bringing back many of our favorite guests,

1:21.2

pairing them up and creating these top 10 lists on subjects we know you care about.

1:27.3

My guests today are Dr. Emma Sepula, who's a psychologist and research scientist from Yale. She's written two books,

1:29.0

The Happiness Track and Sovereign. And she's paired up with Dr. Ethan Cross from the University

1:34.6

of Michigan, where he leads the newly minted Institute for Mental Fitness. Ethan has also

1:40.6

written two books, chatter and shift. Real quick, you know who else had thoughts on how to

1:46.8

regulate your emotions and train your mind? A guy named the Buddha. As you may know, the Buddha

1:51.6

came up with a kind of cookbook to help you lead a happy life. It's called the Eightfold Path.

1:56.9

And this summer, over on my newish meditation app, which is called 10% with Dan Harris,

2:03.1

the great meditation teacher Sharon Salzberg will be leading an eight-part series on the

2:08.0

eight-fold path every Sunday, starting on July 12th.

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