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Emmalee's Birth Story

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Jennifer Chaiken, LMFT and Emmalee Bierly, LMFT

Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Education, Self-improvement, Mental Health, Relationships

4.9755 Ratings

🗓️ 14 July 2025

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

This week on ShrinkChicks, you all get to meet Birdie, Em's newborn daughter! Emmalee shares her birth story and how her expectations for labor went completely out the window. She discusses dealing with unmet or different expectations, why comparison to others or even yourself can be challenging when it comes to birth and postpartum, information overload & control, medication during pregnancy, and what she learned from her first daughter and postpartum experience. Emmalee shares her advice for expectant moms as well as the advice she would give to her younger, postpartum self. Tune in to be part of Birdie's first podcast appearance!


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So let me be honest for a second.

0:02.0

Braves and underwear have always been a pain point for me.

0:05.3

You know the drill.

0:06.3

Strap sticking in, bands that never sit quite right,

0:09.8

underwear that either rolls or rides up.

0:12.4

I'd get so frustrated shopping for bras and underwear that I kind of gave up.

0:17.2

I'd add things to my cart online, stare at them, and then just never check out.

0:21.6

Because in the back of my mind, I figured it'll just be another letdown.

0:25.8

But recently, I finally took the plunge with skims, and I cannot believe I waited this long.

0:30.0

I started with a fits everybody collection, and let me tell you, it is like, oh, so this is what it's supposed to feel like.

0:37.1

The fabric is unreal. Silky, soft, stretching all the right ways, and it somehow manages to feel light but still supportive.

0:45.1

My absolute favorite piece, the triangle bra.

0:47.9

I am not exaggerating when I say it is the most comfortable bra I have ever owned.

0:53.3

Usually the second I walk in the door,

0:55.0

I cannot wait to take my bra off, but with this one, half the time I forget I'm even wearing it.

0:59.7

It's supportive without squeezing and it just feels good on my body. And now I'm kind of obsessed. I

1:05.8

keep looking at the rest of the skim site, making mental wishless and a set of abandoning my cart

1:10.3

like I used to,

1:11.5

I'm actually excited to click checkout. It feels like I finally found intemates that actually work

1:16.0

for me. Pieces I don't have to think about all day because they just feel good. I get it now.

1:21.3

This is why people rave about skims and why I'm officially hooked. Shop skims fit. Everybody's

1:26.9

collection at skims.com. After you place your order,

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